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Lemp Mansion: one of America’s ten most haunted houses

Lemp Mansion. His story has it all. From wealth to suicide, from beer barons to eccentrics, this stone mansion was built in 1868 and reigned over the social elite of St. Louis, Missouri for nearly a decade. Frequent visitors included the great horror Vincent Price, visiting dignitaries and the Upper Bark of St. Louis. Built on a cavern of twisted underground cave systems, its secret corridors, dark corridors, and suicide story are home to paranormal events that occur daily at the famous Bed and Breakfast.

During my initial investigation of Lemp Mansion, I was struck by the heavy atmosphere inside. An immaculate white facade doesn’t prepare you for the dark oak paneling, imposing staircase, and stained glass windows inside. There is a feeling of leaving the 21st century at your front door as you enter a world created by the incredibly wealthy inhabitants of the Golden Age of beer. You have the feeling that you are entering someone else’s environment; a voyeuristic feeling hovering over the entrance, as if the mansion’s owners have simply walked out and returned soon to find a stranger walking on their old-fashioned floorboards. This sense remains as you glimpse the first-floor lounges, dining rooms, and antique bathrooms that still house original marble bathtubs, beveled glass windows, and 19th-century tiles.

So what happened in this house where money was not an issue and a brewing dynasty was created? It all started with the sudden death of William Jacob Lemp’s youngest son, Frederick. William never recovered from the shock and then shot himself in the upstairs bedroom.

The family curse continued when Elsa Lemp Wright, William’s only daughter and the richest woman in St. Louis at the time, shot herself in the heart one morning as her husband showered in their master bathroom at a luxury mansion not far away. from Lemp’s house. . Her suicide occurred just 12 days after she remarried her ex-husband, causing the suspension to weigh on the exact movements of that morning. The fact that her husband waited several hours to report the death only aroused an insatiable appetite for information about the strange death of another of the city’s wealthy.

After William Lemp committed suicide, the torch of the dynasty passed to William’s second son, Billy Lemp, who was reluctant to navigate the heavy burden of running a gigantic brewery business with the popularity of his biggest competitor, Anheuser Busch. . When prohibition, declining sales, and depression took hold of him, Billy also shot himself into what is now the dining room to the left of the mansion’s front door.

Three firearm suicides in a family. One would think that the mantle that hangs over this house would be satisfied. However, there would be a fourth and final death in the house in 1949 when Charles Lemp, the third son, shot himself in his room. He had become a notorious hermit and germ phobia in the days leading up to his suicide. Due to their fear of contamination, money was laundered, shoes were left outside the door (and washed), and visitors were not encouraged. One of the few people allowed to enter the dark sanctuary was horror movie star Vincent Price, who had been friends with Charles.

On the morning of Charles’s death, two shots rang out in the silent house. There were only two servants in residence. Mr. Lemp shot his trusty dog ​​and then himself. He didn’t want to leave the dog alone without him. And here the gruesome tragedies of Lemp Mansion end … or not?

During my two-night stay at the mansion, I was surprised by the myriad of paranormal occurrences. For a lady who has slept in beds in some of the most haunted places in the world, this is quite a confession.

My first night there I was given the attic room where a lot of activity has been reported. I was not disappointed. A little before one in the morning, something started kicking the edge of my bed. My impression at the time was that he felt like a smug child kicking the wall. At 5:30 in the same morning, I was awakened by pressure on both sides of my feet through the blanket. The room was still dark and it took all my courage to reach for my cell phone and shine its light at my feet, not knowing what the little glow would illuminate. There, on either side of my feet, were two little prints on the blanket that looked like little boy’s shoes. The footprints remained long after the sensation of weight disappeared. Later I was told that a small child had died in that attic room; a deformed child belonging to the Lemp family.

The next night I was given Lavender Lady’s room on the second floor. It is a spacious suite with a bathroom with a claw-shaped bathtub and a living room. A ghost tour was taking place in the hallways when I entered my room. My sister and nephew who live in St. Louis had come to spend the night with me. Just as I flopped onto the bed, the antique chandelier above me turned into a frenzy of flickering lights. It continued for several minutes, while my sister whimpered next to me. I finally thought of my phone and grabbed it, clicking the camera and turning it to video. I filmed the erratic blinking and then started asking him questions. I asked her to stop blinking if it was because someone in the room had died causing it. He immediately stopped. Then I asked him to blink once if the person causing the interference died in that room. He blinked once. By now, my sister is begging me to “stop talking to her.” This continued for another 5 minutes and finally the “verbal” volleyball ended. The brightness of the light was stable and did not answer my questions.

The next morning at 5:15 AM, as I lay in bed preparing to get up and pack for an airplane flight, I heard two loud shots from outside the bedroom door. I felt like ice water had been poured into my veins. My heart was beating. Shortly after the gun reports came the barking of what sounded like a large dog. There are no pets at Lemp Mansion and the staff does not report until 10 am. My nephew woke up and said he had just heard a big dog. He did not hear the shots.

Charles Lemp shot his dog and then himself early that fateful morning in 1949. I firmly believe that I heard what is called a residual spell: a looping replayed from the past.

To date, Lemp Mansion is the most haunted place I have come across. I encourage you to visit this famous B&B in St. Louis. One tip … take a flashlight!

Arts Entertainments

What do your wheels say about you and your business?

Many of us are still old enough to remember the days when parking in front of a client’s office building in an ultra-cool, gas-addicted, and growling car was halfway to impressing them that you and your company had to be the best. in your industry.

Today, driving to a client’s office in an expensive gas guzzler can have precisely the opposite effect, making socially conscientious clients see you as if you just crawled out of a drain for being so selfish and inconsiderate of the planet. .

Then there’s the envy / jealousy / spiteful factor, of course

A few years ago I showed up at a client’s office in a brand new car, not flashy, but nice. The customer looked out the window as I turned the key off and said, “Nice car. We must be paying too much.” He said it with an icy smile, but I knew it bothered him.

If the same thing had happened in North America, where I think people can be envious without being jealous, the customer reaction would probably have been, “Nice car. Nice to see your business doing well.”

So be careful if your business is in the UK … leave the vintage Bugatti at home and take the gardener’s truck with you.

So what does your mode of transportation say?

RollsRoyce or Bentley

Movie stars over the hill (rented) and fat Middle Eastern aristocrats (owned and driven at blazing speeds, especially if it’s a supercharged Bentley). Considered tasteful, if hysterically eccentric, only when it is a pre-1960 model.

Ferrari, Lamborghini, etc.

British soccer player, American rapper, minor Arab prince, Kardashian. These cars look like big scooters with speeds close to Mach 1 and cabs that only fit shorter hair extensions, making them unsuitable for most female stars (although Kim K is getting pretty good at getting into it).

Mercedes

Moderately successful entrepreneurs in North America, quirky executives in the UK. Most Germans and other Western Europeans use Mercedes as taxis and think the British are crazy to treat them with such reverence. Be careful when doing business in continental Europe; You may think it’s a new colleague waving at you, but it’s probably an idiot calling a cab.

Audi

Discreet class and good taste. Audi has always tended to have a neutral socioeconomic profile, unlike BMW (flashy and nouveau riche), Volvo (very boring), Skoda (cheap and nasty), Volkswagen (a bit boring), Ford (snake oil salesman) , etc. . Audi’s image has remained neutral despite being the preferred wheel choice for several members of the British royal family, which speaks volumes for its star power.

Large SUV / 4WD / 4×4

Ruthless and wealthy owner of a fast food chain, a slightly dubious real estate agent, elderly sportsman or a nervous 5’2 “mother looking over the wheel taking two young children to daycare. As eco-friendly as a neutron bomb So a no-no if you sell rooftop solar panels or aromatherapy oils.

Carriers of people

Known in the US as “minivans,” these seats seat 7 or 8 people and suggest you’re a minor movie or rock star (if windows are darkened) jumped cabbie (depending on which door you enter) out de), or parent of a large family (be sure to wipe the baby’s vomit off your business suit before exiting the vehicle).

Smart car

Would you really have the nerve to show up to a meeting on a four-wheel potty where not even Noddy and Big Ears would be seen dead? Useful if your client’s office is in the city center because you can park it next to garbage cans. If you must drive one, make sure your business suit has decent-sized pockets so you can hide the beastly thing in there with your keys and phone.

Convertible sports car

Great if you are young already) you are a man and / or b) you have a very short hairstyle. Not great for smartly dressed women (hair and makeup go slobbery at over 30 mph and you end up with the skirt around your neck when getting in and out) or middlemen trying to prove they’re not going through male menopause.

Motorcycle

It depends. Going to a meeting on a retro Vespa is great if you’re in one of the woo-woo industries, but if your client is in a macho business, they’ll think you’re a nerd. A Honda Goldwing or a large Harley gives your look a lot of grunts, but remember that most “Easy Rider” bike enthusiasts are over 60 with tattoos all over and gray ponytails dangling down to their feet. ankles. Make sure it matches your company brand.

Bike

15 or 20 years ago, going to a business meeting in an expensive suit with bike clips and a helmet would make you look like a fool. Today it is considered to be environmentally friendly and saves money, a fact that politicians and industry leaders have not overlooked, who make sure that the paparazzi get good photos of them pedaling to Buckingham Palace or down Wall Street. . But be real. Going to work or a meeting with a client on your bike in the rain sucks. It does not matter to be fashionable; take the subway.

Segway

My fantasy … well you probably get to a meeting about one of these, says idiot, fat, wacko freelance business writer. To hell with that; I want a Segway even though I would surely fall flat on my face within the first 30 yards. In the meantime, I’ll stick with my Volkswagen (a bit boring).

What do you think your wheels say about you and your business?

Technology

Kaspersky Total Security for Android review: why is this the best security suite?

Think of all the important information stored on your tablets and phones. Everything from your social media account to family photo albums requires protection. If you are involved in a business, there is likely critical business data stored on those devices as well. What if you ever lose your Android device or someone manages to hack it? The best way to protect everything is with Kaspersky Total Security for Android.

The Total Security package offers much more than the Internet Security and Antivirus packages. You can expect premium protection for all sensitive information on your Android phones. You can order it online through the website or through Google Play. Choose from a one or two year subscription for your Android device.

Kaspersky does a good job of stopping threats, no matter what web browser you use. The technology will detect malicious files and stop them before they download and start attacking your device. It is highly rated for its detection capabilities by all major independent antivirus labs. You can do a manual application scan whenever you need and allow automatic scanning for the rest of the time.

In addition to virus protection, Kaspersky Total Security for Android also offers features such as parental controls, anti-phishing technology, and call / text filtering, which is very flexible. Tablets and smartphones aren’t the only devices you can protect either. Total Security also offers support for Android Wear products, which simplifies general security management.

Digital dangers without Kaspersky Total Security for Android

You won’t have to worry about digital dangers, including malware and ransomware attacks. It works in a way that does not interfere with the operation. Your device will not slow down at all, as Kaspersky runs silently and efficiently in the background.

Keep your data away from the prying eyes of family, friends and co-workers with the Confidentiality feature. Use it to lock key apps with a special code. While you’re at it, you can hide text messages, logs, and calls from nosy people.

Don’t worry if you ever have to reset your device. Even if you reinstall the application, the program key will still work, as long as there is time left in your subscription. The entire program is easy to configure and use. There are many easy-to-use functions, so that even a beginner can figure it out.

Kaspersky Total Security for Android is not just any program. It is very well designed and offers good, award-winning technology. Although androids tend to be relatively safe on their own, it always helps to have that extra protection. Get it today and start protecting your digital life.

The company offers a variety of free tools to help you get started. Once you learn things, it will be time to use coupons and promotional codes in Kaspersky Total Security for Android. These offers will help you save on your subscription.

Business

How Inspirational Quotes Demotivate You

The other day I was doing a little market research. I took the top sites in the broadly defined “self-improvement” sphere and took a look at how people find them.

With the right tools, you can see what keywords people are using to find a certain site.

Each site was unique, with its own brand, personality, and target audience.

What surprised me was how common ‘inspirational quotes’ (or variations) appeared.

In fact, one site, which was supposed to be a blog about success, only attracted people who were looking to be motivated in the form of dating.

If that’s what you’re looking for, keep walking. Rarely trafficked with them, for a very good reason:

Motivational quotes can be awesome. If you dive deep into personal development and research in psychology, influence, religion, politics, sociology, collective intelligence, history, language, neuroscience …

And so on …

All with the goal of improving yourself, then the correct quote may be exactly what you need. An old wisdom suddenly triggers the correct epiphany, and you see what you’ve learned (and what it means to you) in whole new ways.

Secondly …

If you spend all day at an unstimulating but strangely exhausting job, spending your free time on social media or watching YouTube, motivational quotes won’t be enough.

In fact, they might even hurt you.

They create this false sense of inspiration. Inspiration is fantastic, one of the best things in history, if it guides it towards some result. If you feel it just to enjoy the buzz, then that replaces your need to do anything.

Sure, you could be proud of yourself completing your master’s degree or creating an app.

Or you could read something great Einstein once said.

If it’s a neurochemical solution you’re looking for, they get the job done. For a while, that is. This is why some people spend so much time flipping through these quotes – they are literally addicted to them.

But if you want real inspiration, you have to work harder.

You have to find a level of clarity and honesty in yourself that goes beyond what you currently have. Yes, yes, I know how wonderfully aware you are. Even so, it is necessary to go deeper.

Ideas inspire you when they align with your unconscious values. You probably already have an idea of ​​some of these values. However, we all need more than a “sense”. What we need is a photorealistic 3D special effects model of them.

Find them, study hard, and then see what quotes you like.

Not the other way around.

Home Kitchen

Who else wants a beautiful luxury kitchen?

If you thought that luxury kitchen cabinets are only the privilege of the rich, the elite, and celebrities, you are wrong. Kitchens are the busiest and most expensive room in the house. Kitchens are very complex rooms that have to function on many levels.

Everyone deserves a beautiful luxury kitchen.

That means you too !!!

I’m sure you have some kitchen design ideas that appeal to you. You may have seen them on television, on websites, in magazines, or at the homes of friends and family.

The kitchen is one of the first things people remodel when looking to improve their home. New kitchen cabinets are one of the most popular luxury kitchen home improvements.

Many consumers think of the Home Depot and Lowes neighborhood when it comes to cabinets. However, this only gives you access to a standard layout for your kitchen plan vs. a personalized and personalized kitchen style and layout. You can get an expeditor vs. an experienced designer. Consumers also have access to RTA (ready-to-assemble), stock, semi-custom, and custom cabinets.

Custom and custom made luxury cabinets are another source Manufacturers specialize in premium designer center quality kitchen cabinets of unbeatable quality. High-end manufacturers of real estate-grade cabinets include Christopher Peacock, Bakes and Company, Clive Christian, Cottonwood, Siematic, Wm Ohs, Mark Wilkinson, Luxury British Interiors, Rutt, etc. Bespoke is another description of cabinets on the luxury level. That means there is a high degree of personalization and personalization. There is a great build quality.

Custom cabinets include traditional and European style front frame cabinets. These cabinet lines include high-end upgrades as standard features; such as six-way adjustable hinges, soft-close drawers, wooden drawers, dovetail joints, and bottom-mounted full-extension sliders. A high-quality furniture finish is provided in state-of-the-art manufacturing facilities or on-site hand painting.

Granite and marble can help enhance the beauty and function of your kitchen. Natural stone will always be one of the first options due to its attractiveness in design. Although it has become a very common option, it is often preferred.

For those who are tired of granite and marble, the time has come for a change, many opt for a mix of countertop surfaces such as wood, concrete, lava, soapstone, synthetic stone, and glass. Because kitchens are designed with different work zones, they can have different materials for each zone.

Other popular additions include stainless steel appliances, including subzero refrigerators, built-in microwave ovens, and ranges. Most of the appliances will be integrated into a luxury kitchen so that they are not visible. Many people who do a fancy kitchen prefer a gas stove. Induction cooking and steam cooking have also become new favorites.

Luxury is desired by the “elite” consumer who sees current trends and wants luxury products. However, luxury also means being able to make selected personal decisions to make your life comfortable. Everyone deserves to be comfortable in their home. Everyone should LOVE the house they live in.

In today’s real estate market, a remodel is the perfect solution to improve the lifestyle and financial position of homeowners and their families. Homeowners can enjoy a new lifestyle and reap the economic benefits of their investment. When you make a significant investment in your home, you want your improvements to last. Fortunately, there are great resources for high-quality durable luxury cabinets that are both fashionable and functional.

You deserve a beautiful luxury kitchen!

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Explanation of realizationism

Realizationism / Realizationism it can be explained quite simply.

It’s like someone showing how a magic trick works. The transformation from something totally puzzling to something so simple and easy to understand is amazing. We are in awe and dumbfounded by the trick as the Wizard clings to his secret ‘Magic Circle’!

To explain Realization we must understand the trick. To do this, we need to think differently, to contradict the establishment views imprinted on our unconscious and subconscious memory for generations.

This is now possible thanks to the growing acceptance, over the last 20 years, of what was once a “wacky” idea, that extraterrestrial life forms may exist in our Universe.

What if extraterrestrial life forms landed on Earth in our prehistory, some 13,000 years ago?

I am aware that this is a great leap of faith, but it is an integral part of the concept of Realization which requires the belief in an ancient civilization run by aliens, long before the Egyptians, which has until now been hidden, deliberately misrepresented or destroyed.

So what happened to this early alien-established civilization?

Global evidence indicates a major disturbance on Earth about 10,500 years ago that devastated large areas of our planet. Some suggest the impact of a meteorite, but whatever the reason the ancient civilization was badly affected by earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, and a massive tsunami. (Youngest Dryas Global Event).

All religions describe a Great Flood about 10,500 years ago; for example, Noah in the Book of Genesis of the Bible.

Did a group of our earliest extraterrestrial / human survivors, perhaps Noah, who understood and witnessed this amazing first civilization, hold on to some of the incredible extraterrestrial archives and knowledge of the Universe? Was this information kept in the mythical ‘ark’?

We are led to believe that the ‘Ark’ is a large ship where Noah brought the animals “two by two”. Has this word ‘Ark’ been deliberately misinterpreted? Now it is suggested that the correct translation of the word ‘Ark’ is “a pointed stone structure”, a pyramid? Is it more likely that the ‘Ark’ was some kind of storage facility, perhaps one of the surviving pyramids in Egypt with the information moved long ago to a more secure secret location?

Perhaps the animals were taken to an ‘Ark’, a scientific pyramid, two by two for experimental purposes. Horses, bulls, homo sapiens, birds, etc.

Perhaps the hybrid Sphinx was built in front of the Great Pyramid to represent the place where the crossed creatures were “created”. Could this explain why hundreds of mythical creatures described in Greek mythology, for example the minotaur, the centaur and the dragon, actually existed but how the monsters did not survive long after the catastrophic event? Will we soon have the technology to repeat these first experiments?

In the wake of the devastation, is it possible that a group of elites, (a complex ‘Magic Circle’), took control and could hide much of the alien knowledge from the remaining confused survivors?

Has our early civilization and evolution been deliberately obscured by a group of elites who have continually had power over the rest of us since this time through a larger establishment group?

The Elites can easily manipulate the Establishment through Projects Greed, Fear, and Power, in addition to their ability to easily discredit and destroy anyone who becomes a threat to their power and authority. The Establishment uses similar tactics with the rest of us!

I don’t think rich and well-known families like the Vanderbilts, Rockefellers and Carnegies or even monarchs, media moguls and politicians were elites. They were simply wealthy establishment figures along with other very wealthy families who could manipulate the rest of the population in similar ways.

Who were these elites? Knights Templar, Druids, Freemasons, maybe? Where are they today? Do elites still exist?

Perhaps the elites are long gone due to their own frailties, leaving us ruled by a clueless establishment! Can we save ourselves from their immoral capitalist greed and stupidity?

I believe that some members of the extraterrestrial hierarchy who survived the disaster were unable to join the elites or were unaware of their existence. They became part of the general survivor population.

This could explain why throughout the centuries each generation has produced “wise men.” Some were quickly discredited, persecuted, or worse, as possible threats to the elites. Many survived.

Is it possible that some of the great thinkers of the past, such as Socrates, Buddha, and Confucius, somehow survived the elites and came to their conclusions and doctrines based on much of our early history, which has now been obscured or lost?

The three great thinkers mentioned above were lovers of wisdom and desired a world where society was in harmony. Are they echoing something from your research or an unconscious memory that had previously existed? Of course this can only be speculation and the idea that Humanity’s seeds come from aliens can only be blind faith at this point.

Are we starting to realize that we all are and have always been so smart? Is there no comparison when compared to our closest relative the chimpanzee and the bonobo?

Darwinism does not explain human development since homo sapiens. Is there a missing link? Or did homo sapiens develop with little change in its physical structure, but with a Foreign visitor gene that possesses great intelligence and knowledge?

I think we are beginning to realize that we have all inherited amazing knowledge through a ‘transgenerational memory gene‘that has been transmitted to us since our first ET /Homo sapiens offspring! We all have amazing knowledge hidden in our unconscious memory.

Fortunately, each generation is producing more and more of us with greater wisdom and knowledge than the Establishment. Is it naive to think that the establishment will change or step aside to allow others to have a more open mind and the ability to care for and govern our planet more fairly and responsibly? Or is it just a pipe dream?

Throughout human history, we have not only been excluded from the secrets of the ‘Magic Circle’, but we have deliberately strayed by getting too close to the answer!

This is particularly true when investigating ancient prehistoric megaliths and stone structures that can help us find the answers!

We are beginning to realize the scientific complexity of pyramids, built on every continent on Earth for different functions, but they all produce different forms of energy. Does there seem to have been amazing knowledge on Earth at this time?

I think we are entering an era of Realization where we begin to understand how and why they manipulate us and to recognize how easy it is to be manipulated.

The establishment is now trying to control what we can and cannot say under its guise of “political correctness”, making fun of the millions who have died in the last century fighting for our freedom.

But they can’t control what we think!

We need to think for ourselves, to contradict the establishment views imprinted on our unconscious and subconscious memory over time.

I hope that Realization The movement gains momentum to take control of our own destiny for the sake of our children and our precious planet.

Quotes

“Most likely the missing link between animals and the real human being is ourselves.” Konrad lorenz

“Nothing exists except atoms and space; everything else is opinion.” Democritus of Abdera

“The simple process of focusing on things that are normally taken for granted is a powerful source of creativity.” Edward de Bono.

Digital Marketing

Good team building techniques Successfully build team spirit

Techniques that successfully build team spirit are an important key to continued business growth. A good team has a whole that is greater than the sum of its parts with members who are committed to shared goals and who understand their role within the team. This article asks 5 questions the answers to which will provide team building techniques that can help you achieve a successful and cohesive team.

1. Is the role of each team member clearly defined and established within the team?

This is part of the basic groundwork. Each member needs to know what role they have within the team in order to understand what is expected of them. They also need to know what the roles of all the other team members are and how they fit into the bigger picture.

In this way, each team member can create a picture of where they are and where others are. This is a hallmark common to all successful teams. Members know where they fit in and where others fit. This can also help eliminate conflicts within the team.

2. Is there a way to avoid or resolve possible conflicts that arise within the team?

Team building techniques need to be in place to eradicate conflict in a team. A team must be consistent to be successful. It is generally best when individual team members know that they alone are not responsible for resolving conflicts that involve them. They need to know that there is a general policy to address these issues when they arise.

3. Are there adequate communication channels open to all team members?

Communication is one of the best team building techniques. Covers almost everything. Too many problems arise because someone does not know something that they should know. Keep all communication channels open between members at all times.

However, beware of information overload. Sometimes those who get too much information just shut off. This creates a situation that is as bad as having too little information.

4. Are team members allowed to feel good about the team’s successes?

A job should be more than just a job. Each member must feel part of something vital and important. This is where compromise and compromise comes in. When team members feel like an important part of a team, they should also feel that they have a right to celebrate any important successes a team has.

After all, they are the reason for success. Each individual is an important cog in the overall wheel and this fact must be recognized. Celebrating a team’s success can be a simple affair, perhaps just an announcement saying “well done” to everyone. Of course, it can be something much grander.

5. Does the team have a generally positive attitude?

A positive attitude is important for success. Seeing the glass half full is better than seeing it half empty. A positive attitude, especially from team leaders, will stimulate all team members and contribute to the overall success of the team. Make sure all reviews are positive and always find something good about any flaws.

Relationship

Including nieces and nephews at your wedding

If you have a lot of young relatives hanging around, you may be wondering how best to include the little ones in your wedding. Children of all ages can participate in a wedding and their spirit always adds something special to the festivities. Here are some ideas on how to include your nieces and nephews in your wedding.

Your nieces and nephews can have a place at your wedding ceremony regardless of their age. The most common role for young children is ring bearer or flower girl. Don’t feel like you have to choose between your nephews and nephews if you have a large family. While many bridesmaids may end up looking a bit silly, a large group of kids at your bridal party will inspire lots of smiles and “awwwws.” Some brides who have a very large group of young relatives to include in their wedding will decide to have only one maid of honor and one best man for the groom, giving up the rest of the bridesmaids in favor of having a wedding party made up of all. its members. nieces and nephews.

The most common role for young children is ring bearer or flower girl. This tends to work best for children between the ages of three and eight. The flower girl (or girls) can bring a small bouquet of flowers or a basket of petals to throw away (if the venue allows). They are usually dressed in sweet little dresses with patent leather shoes and possibly wear a flower crown in their hair. The bride should plan to give flower girl gifts to the little ones. Traditional flower girl gifts include very delicate silver medallions or pearl pendants.

The ring bearer theoretically wears the wedding bands down the aisle to the altar (I say theoretically because the rings on the pillow are often fake). If you had two small children and you wanted each to be a ring bearer, each could carry a small pillow, one with the bride’s wedding ring and one with the groom’s ring (or the facsimiles). When you have a larger number of nephews, it can be pages. This works best when the wedding is a large, formal affair. Pages traditionally help carry the bride’s tail. It is very sweet when the wedding dress features a large cathedral length train, but it would be impractical for a small sweep train. In that case, just have the youth all dress the same and walk down the hall as a group. Even without a specific task, your nephews can still be a part of the fun.

Elder nieces and nephews may be invited to participate in the wedding as bridesmaids or groomsmen. This is a bridge position for a boy who is too old to be a flower girl or ring bearer, but too young to be a full-fledged bridesmaid or groomsman. The typical age range for junior assistants is nine to fourteen years old. Once they are about fifteen or sixteen years old, they will be ready to be regular bridesmaids or groomsmen. Junior bridesmaids will wear dresses that are similar in style to bridesmaids’ dresses, only a more demure and age-appropriate style. Since men’s formal wear varies so little, junior groomsmen can wear the same type of suit as groomsmen, or they can wear a jacket and pants instead of a full suit.

Even young children can play a role in your wedding as long as you don’t expect things to go perfectly. There is nothing more adorable than a very young niece or nephew traveling down the aisle in a fancy carriage or sleigh pulled by an older brother. I’ve even seen babies pushed down the aisle in flower-adorned strollers! It is so much fun to include as many nieces and nephews in your wedding as you want.

Gaming

Magical blessings: the hidden meaning of mistletoe

There are many symbols that permeate the Christmas season, and yet, as with many things, we have become disconnected from the inherent meaning of the hidden blessings within. This has been a year of reconnection as we step forward to embrace the stability of who we are in a world of fluctuating instability. Layer after layer, the framework we were used to living in has been crumbling and unraveling, as we delve deeper to discover the true foundation beneath the rubble. It is from this place that we can rebuild again with authenticity and lasting value.

The mistletoe symbolizes this kind of symbolism from the Tarot of the Tower card, and reveals to us what is under the window of the glass house when it is broken, in the mysterious way that the Druids believed it was brought to Earth and conceived where lightning struck trees. Thriving in trees rather than rooted in the Earth, these carriers of peace, fertility, blessings and immortality are also believed to represent both the divine and confusion and disorderly chaos.

Its ancient pagan religious significance was forgotten, but many of its other meanings and customs have remained with us, including the kiss under the mistletoe, which is a token of goodwill and friendship, and an omen of happiness, good luck, and a new meaning. religious. . While a romantic symbol, this parasitic plant also contains lunar, feminine, and fertility energy. (Diana, also known as Artemis, wore a mistletoe crown as an emblem of fertility and immortality.)

Mistletoe was a sacred plant in the pagan religion of the Druids in Great Britain. They believed that it had all kinds of miraculous qualities and therefore called it “Total Healing”. Since it grew on the sacred oaks they worshiped, the Druids believed that mistletoe was of divine origin and shared the strength of the oak. After the winter solstice they received communion in a great ceremony and sacred ritual offering of fertility to their gods, which consisted of collecting the plant, cutting it with a golden sickle and placing it on a white cloth to avoid contamination by contact with iron or iron. Earth.

The Germans shared the sentiment of the Druids, calling this plant Gut Hyl or “total cure”. Despite its toxicity, it was used as a universal remedy, fertility drug, used for protection, and thought to provide strengthening effects. It had very powerful meanings to many ancients, including the beautiful belief that if enemies were accidentally found under the wild mistletoe in the woods, they would lay down their weapons, embrace each other, and enjoy a day of truce. Maybe we should string mistletoe across the Earth?

Although it had pagan associations, which often banished mistletoe from Christian holidays, it has remained a popular Christmas symbol of love and eternal life and was used as a symbol of Christ, the Divine Healer of the nations. It was called Herb of the Cross and Lignum Sanctae Crucis or “the Wood of the Holy Cross” because it was believed that the wood for the cross of Christ came from his tree. This is why she was condemned to the life of a parasitic vine for her participation in the Crucifixion, just as the symbolic serpent was condemned to crawl on her belly for her participation in the fall of man. It’s interesting how what once had great meaning can be changed with a simple change of perspective. Does that mean that the symbolism and healing powers of those things have really changed, or has the meaning been transformed to move us away from remembering the qualities inherent in everything around us awaiting our transformative reconnection?

With the arrival of the New Year, the mistletoe reminds us of what lies beneath the illusion once lightning strikes, as it becomes the legendary Golden Bough whose withered yellow leaves were believed to aid its owner in the search for a buried treasure. Legends like the Virgil story tell of Aeneas (leader of the Trojan refugees) carrying this golden branch to the underworld while searching for news of his future from his deceased father. Other legends share that the Golden Branch brought freedom to any slave who touched it.

We have the ability to live in true freedom and discover many buried treasures as the walls collapse. What is revealed to us then are magical blessings that are impossible to keep hidden once we embrace the truth within our hearts.

Health Fitness

7 effective remedies for leg cramps during pregnancy

Leg cramps are quite common during pregnancy. Most women experience it in the third trimester. Reports reveal that almost half of all pregnant women suffer from muscle spasms, especially in the legs. These women have also reported that cramps become more frequent at night.

One of the main causes is the excess weight gained by women during this period. The legs bear all this weight and this overload causes spasms / cramps. Furthermore, changes in the body’s circulation also cause this problem. Other common reasons include pressure from the growing baby that is placed on the nerves and blood vessels that travel to the legs. The growing uterus also puts pressure on the veins in the leg. Pregnancy hormones and nutritional deficiency are some other reasons.

Fortunately, there are a few things you can do to ease leg cramps. Here are 7 effective remedies for leg cramps during pregnancy:

1. Warm water bath

Take a warm bath with Epsom salt. This is one of the best ways to effectively relieve leg pain. It will relax you and reduce stress levels. At the same time, this bath will also relieve tension in your muscles.

2. Cold pack

Wrap some ice cubes taken directly from the refrigerator and apply them to the affected areas. You can also use an ice pack and apply it on the cramped muscle.

3. Get some time for me

Do you have enough time for me? If the answer is no, try activities that relieve stress. Read a book or explore creative hobbies. Go to the movies, shop, garden, or do whatever makes you happy.

4. Massage and stretching

Gently massaging the calf will help. Ask your partner or a professional for a relaxing massage. Flexing your foot will also give you relief. Raise your toes and push your heel out. Don’t point your toe. This can exacerbate cramps and even make them worse. Stand on a hard floor and lift your toes to stretch your calf muscle and relieve cramps. Make sure to hold onto something to keep your balance.

5. Increase your water intake

Make sure you drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. Studies have revealed that a lack of sodium leads to severe muscle contractions.

6. Apply heat

Yes, applying local heat will help. Put hot water bottles, gel packs or a towel dipped in hot water and then squeeze.

7. Practice yoga

Certain yoga poses are said to help during pregnancy cramps. Try the hip rotation pose in the second trimester. The modified standing squat also helps. These are meant to strengthen the muscles and the lower body. Make sure you have the help of a professional.