Living in harmony with others can be very difficult in these times. Many people get caught up in their own world and may forget that their behavior towards others can affect their own lives. Throughout our lives we experience anger, jealousy, envy, and resentment at one point or another, and no one is perfect. But all these negative emotions can eat you up and create chaos like no other in your life.

Anger

There is not a soul on earth who has not been angry with someone who they felt had done them wrong. It is in our nature to be angry. The average person can get angry several times a day. Have you ever been to a department store on the day of the biggest clearance sale and that extremely jealous woman almost hit you for the bargains? How about when the person besides you monopolizes all the bargains and you want to give him a piece of what you think? You find yourself biting your tongue to avoid saying some not-so-appropriate comments. I’m sure some people have witnessed an overly dramatic scene at a family gathering when too many personal matters are said out of anger.

Anger can cause a lot of problems and will reap its ugly head whenever our negative emotions take over. Many times the person you are angry with does not even realize how much pain and confusion the situation has created in your life. Some people are fully aware, but they don’t even care. While you drown in anger and hold a grudge, they are walking just as content with their life.

Sorry

The act of forgiveness is a difficult thing for many people to do. Many people feel that forgiving someone is letting the person get away with it and forces that person to do the wrong thing again.

The act of forgiving is not really for your benefit. Some people may care less if they are forgiven. The act of forgiveness is for you. Forgiveness releases negative hostile energy within you. This hostile energy is often responsible for disease. The word disease means not to be comfortable. When you are angry you are definitely not comfortable. Anger can cause stress and can also cause blood pressure levels to rise, which could contribute to heart disease, stroke, and other complications. It may not be easy, but it would be beneficial for everyone to learn to forgive.

Forgive yourself

In some cases, the person who has committed the dirty act may feel that he or she needs the other party’s forgiveness to move on. But they can actually forgive themselves, the other party is not necessary. There is no greater power outside of you than within your own being.

Jealousy

Jealousy is a very negative emotion. Negative emotions block positive results. Good things will not come to you with so much negativity. People tend to block their blessings when they don’t want blessings for others. If you want the best for yourself, you must want the best for others.

Jealousy is not just a negative emotion, it puts you in a state of lack. When you are jealous, you are afraid of losing something to someone else. For example: losing the special person in your life for another. Have you seen the woman who is so afraid that her partner will end the relationship that she pushes him away because of unnecessary accusations of infidelity? So, in a sense, she created her own loss.

Sometimes people are jealous when someone is complimented on their appearance or talent; they feel that it diverts their attention. What they’re saying is that they can’t shine anymore because someone else stole the spotlight. It sounds silly but it happens. That’s when they start to feel insecure and then it all goes downhill. The more you focus on lack, the more it will manifest in your life and create more problems than you can expect.

Envy

Envy usually occurs when you want what someone else has. Whenever you want what someone has, you are saying that I don’t have it. Once again, you are focusing on the lack of something.

People who experience abundance, prosperity, and love are usually positive people who realize that there is enough prosperity, love, and abundance for everyone. You don’t need to feel like you can’t achieve or have anything you want.

Resentment

Resentment is another negative emotion.

Some people harbor animosity against other people who feel they don’t deserve good things. For instance; see others succeed and really feel that they don’t deserve success. They may feel resentful and have a small desire to humiliate or annoy that person.

This emotion also puts you in a state of lack. What you are saying is that this person does not deserve anything. What you don’t want for others cannot come to you. In most cases, people tend to “reap what they sow.”

Love

Love is said to be the strongest positive emotion that human beings have. Love is said to be the answer to all problems on this earth. Many people tend to laugh at that concept. I can’t count the many times I’ve heard the saying “Love can’t pay the bills.”

Benefits of love

Do you remember the time when you looked at your spouse or that special person in your life and that strong emotion called love filled every inch of your inner being? Or do you remember when you held your newborn in your arms and that positive loving feeling like no other shone so bright inside you that everyone could see it on your face?

That strong positive feeling is a gift from God to you. People who have the most love in their life have been proven to be healthier and more content with their lives. If love is believed to be the strongest emotion, just think that if we learned to use it more often we would be healthier and experience more love, abundance and prosperity, and all the other positive possibilities under the sun. So, in a sense, love could pay the bills. And remember friends, when you see an attractive individual draw attention while walking in the latest fashions, although they may not have the same outfit or even show the slightest resemblance to that person, they still have within themselves the ability to be whatever. you dream. Let go of destructive emotions, because there is no need to carry so much negativity.