When you feel that you want to seduce your ex-wife, you must know that you are going to be treading on delicate ground. You need to be very careful when approaching this as you want things to work out well. Unlike a new first date, getting seduced by your wife will take a little longer due to your history. This is what you must do to seduce your ex-wife.

Make her feel comfortable with you

Get her out of the awkward zone and make her comfortable with you once again. She has to be able to at least hang out with you before you take her to the seduction zone.

Fix unresolved issues

Solve your unresolved problems. Seek advice or just start communicating with each other so you can move on and put the past behind you. Once problems are solved, intimacy arises much more voluntarily.

Start as friends

Take this as a new relationship. Show your ex-wife that you are treating your relationship with her in a delicate way and to do so you must first make friends. If you can feel comfortable talking to each other as friends and can connect as friends, then your move with her will be much easier to handle.

Don’t move too soon

Many men are quick to seduce their ex-wives too soon. Your time has to be right. You can’t make your ex feel “used” at any point. The moment she feels like this, you will be out of her life forever. So go out of your way to woo her first.

Take her for a ride

As part of the courtship process, you need to take her out on a date. Just don’t call it a date, call it an outing. Take her to the only place she loves. Go in the afternoon or evening when people aren’t crowding you and you can have a quiet, intimate time with your ex. Surprise her with your thoughtfulness.

Talk about the old days

Little by little, start talking about the old days when you were together. Remember your happy moments and tell him funny stories and incidents that you remember. Tell her about that time when she looked radiantly beautiful and you couldn’t take your eyes off her.

Tell her that you still love her

So tell her that now she looks even more beautiful. She will be overwhelmed by your thoughtfulness and just when she feels soft inside, tell her that you still love her and will always love her. Your work is done!