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Interview with Maha Al Musa – Author of Dance of the Womb

Dev– First of all, my sincere congratulations on writing and publishing your book and winning the gold award at the Living Now Independent Book Publishers Awards. When did you first think about writing about this particular topic?

Maha al musa– Thank you very much Dev for your congratulations.

I had been teaching belly dancing as a prenatal exercise for about four years when in 2000 we were on a family vacation in Western Samoa with my two sons who were then 1 and 4 years old. One morning I was sitting on the beach chatting with another female traveler telling her how I facilitated belly dancing for pregnancy classes and how I had connected to my Middle Eastern roots through dance. We talked about culture, my experiences of being raised in the West from an oriental culture, the meaning of belly dancing for Arab women and women in labor, my Muslim origin on the part of my father, etc. I mentioned that for me belly dance represented this same poeticism of expression: the East meets the West and life experiences and how I related it to my teaching of pregnant women about childbirth and how powerful our personal stories can be. when we allow ourselves to fully embrace life’s experiences. experiences. She turned around in all sincerity and said

“You must write about this! And share your insights and knowledge with all the women of the world! Women need to hear about this and women definitely need to be empowered around natural childbirth as in these modern times we have to eliminate the fear of childbirth “.

I said “that’s what my job is all about and belly dancing has the potential to bring women to a safe and autonomous place in childbirth!”

A month later, once we got home, I thought this woman was right. I must write!

So I started my book in 2001.

Dev– You have added your personal memories to each chapter, there are some very honest statements about finding your mother and growing up in Australia as an immigrant. Do you link the events spiritually and emotionally to your personal journey to becoming a mother?

Maha al musa– Yes, I cannot separate my experiences as a first generation migrant (although I was only two years old when I arrived in Australia) from my emotional and spiritual world and my life as a mother. Motherhood is an extension of who I am and what I do! Who am I without my stories, beliefs, culture, education, experiences of being ethnic in Australia etc etc? It is a rich tapestry of color like belly dancing!

I invite all women to reflect, acknowledge and assimilate the stories of their own lives in the deeply moving experience of childbirth and motherhood, both positive and negative, both in balance. The most important thing is to accept ourselves as spiritually integrated women regardless of color, race, or creed.

Dev– It was an interesting read about the breakdown of movements and explanations of belly dancing as a tool for prenatal and childbirth. In the Middle East, do people still use childbirth preparation techniques as you have explained?

Maha To the muse– As I mentioned in my book, Dance Of The Womb, I did a lot of research on whether women in the Middle East use belly dancing as a birth dance today; it was extremely difficult to access this information, especially anything written. There are some Egyptian hieroglyphs that portray women squatting and being cared for by women in the past; It seems to me that modern Arab women may have lost some of this knowledge today and indeed can see traditional and indigenous ways of giving birth as primitive as they too embrace the so-called wonders of technology. I would very much like my work to return to the Arab world and re-educate women about what we may have culturally lost regarding natural childbirth.

Dev– One of the main aspects of belly dancing is despised and often misinterpreted by the general public as sexual in some way. As an educator and teacher, how do you approach this complex situation with the general public?

Maha al musa– I understand that the element of “sexuality” is strongly represented in the opinions that people have of belly dance per se … and in the perception of dance by the public and also by some dancers … my work With pregnant women it takes the belly dancing to another level (although in reality pregnancy stems from a sexual act) – we cannot deny that birth is an extension of our sexual experience as women, but the way it is taught and I present in my work – The Al Musa Method – it is quite a spiritual practice that purposefully supports this powerful feminine experience. Belly dancing helps women connect with their bodies by giving birth to wisdom rather than purely sexual nature, so women can consciously give birth and hopefully work towards a fearless delivery. .

So, we could say that belly dancing is essentially rooted in the woman’s sexuality (conception) and can then be expressed in childbirth reflecting strength and autonomy – those attributes that have been lost in the commercialism and medicalization of birth – the general public once they begin to understand and hopefully experience belly dancing in this form of prenatal exercise and childbirth will fully understand and accept its amazing gifts for women … I guess I’m looking forward to reliving its powerful! another nature in conventional childbirth!

Dev– You have also supplemented your book with a DVD release. What can our DVD players expect? Do you think that in the current scenario, visual presentation has much more effect on people than reading a book?

Maha al musa– My DVD, of the same name, Dance Of The Womb, is a continuation of the book. It basically brings the book “life” … women can now easily follow me through dance practices as if they were in an intimate and enriching space with me holding them with ease and grace during their pregnancy. I definitely think that visual representation through a DVD format not only presents an idea of ​​my style of teaching and expressing myself, but is also a wonderful way for women to connect with their bodies and their babies. I think reading has its merits too and there were definitely challenges to writing about dance in print! I embellished the idea by weaving my personal story through belly dancing to the birth movements to give it a deeper and more intimate background. I think it works very well as a writer … A moving experience!

So hand in hand, the book and the DVD are wonderful resources: in the book you get to know me and my story and in the DVD we can visually share this together … and it is also a rare event to see a 46-year-old woman. natural pregnancy and natural childbirth.

I guess I dance my talk!

Dev– Going back to your book, you mentioned the evolutionary nature of belly dancing. The Middle East is part of the new economic and cultural globalization, how do you see the opinion of the general public about belly dancing in the next 20 years, specifically in the West?

Maha al musa – Well for me personally, as mentioned, I hope to be part of the new wave of seeing the art form of belly dancing in a new perspective … often traditional art forms, when accepted by the West , they get a renewed renewal of life since we apply a different perspective on their attraction … although in saying that I believe that it is always important to respect and recognize the roots and the source of the information used so that it is not diluted too much as to lose meaning and expression. It is a fine line to walk ….. and the notion of who owns culture is an interesting question … would we ask who owns the Earth? Humanity?

Respect, respect, respect is of the utmost importance to me … recognizing the rich history and culture of the Middle East and the incredible gifts bestowed over the past thousands of years from this part of the world, from algebra to medicine and belly dance. for the birth !!

Dev – Thank you very much Maha for your time and patience. I am sure our readers will enjoy your interview and we wish you every success in the future.

Pets

The magic messenger

Here in the southeast, the rainy season re-enters, a time when the sky remains bright and cornflower blue, but November leaves the rain on the trees in fiery hues and hues. That night the temperature drops below freezing, the trees slowly fall apart, the night shrouded in a blanket of silence, too cold for the strumming of crickets and tree frogs.

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On Monday morning, Savannah Monroe opens the front door to run out onto the porch, grab the newspaper, and scramble back into the house before the fresh air saturates her robe. Instead, find a calico kitten rolling around with the paper, tackling it like a soccer ball, chewing on the rubber band.

“Hi, honey,” Savannah says, kneeling slowly, forgetting about the icy breeze. “Who do you belong to?”

The kitten leaps to his feet, meows loudly, and runs over to Savannah, flopping down on his slippers. As he strokes his matted fur, he estimates the kitten to be six weeks old, part of a wild colony that lives in the overgrown terrain at the end of the street.

“Bet you’re hungry,” he says, feeling the kitten’s ribs peeking out of his caramel and ivory coating.

Suddenly, a low growl intensifies behind Savannah as Thoth, her Maine Coon, discovers the reason for the open door and the cold breeze swimming through the living room. Before she can stop him, Thoth pounces on the kitten, who scurries like a white mouse under Savannah’s robe and into the house.

Hearing the howls, Horus descends the stairs and helps Thoth corner the hissing kitten under the kitchen table, while Savannah closes the door and runs.

“Back off, boys,” she says to Thoth and Horus, gently pulling the cats aside so she can crawl under the table and rescue the trembling kitten. “Let’s clean you up a bit,” he says to the kitten, as he tries to hide in his arms.

Walk to the sink and turn on the tap. The warm water flows over the kitten in her hand like a grapefruit. Her shivering begins to subside, as Savannah gently soaps an organic flea shampoo around her eyes and ears, right down to the tip.

At just six inches long, the kitten is standing on the counter nibbling on a piece of kibble while Savannah bites into her wet fur with a dish towel. By lifting the tail, it determines that the kitten is male. Turning it over, he finds no sign of fleas, but one eye blinks red and crusty. Savannah mixes a warm goldenseal tea solution and washes both eyes, a trick she learned from her best friend, Ravena Riley, a veteran of wild cat rescue.

“When I get the chance, I’ll call Ravenna,” he muses. “Maybe she can find a home for you.”

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Take the kitten to the bathroom with a bowl of cat milk, not trusting him alone in the house with Horus and Thoth. After Savannah showers and dresses for work, the kitty follows her into the office, where she immediately dives into the open pocket of an unfinished purse.

“Oh no you don’t!” he exclaims, laughing, as he grabs an empty reel of tape to distract him.

Savannah’s Magickal Handbags specializes in expensive handcrafted purses with magic spells. She founded the company ten years ago by accident, when she couldn’t find an attractive but functional bag for her job as a personal assistant to a fashion designer in Atlanta. Frustrated, she created her own, which caused a stir the first day she brought it to work and generated several requests from co-workers and friends.

Within a year, she had fattened her savings account and gathered a long list of handbag wholesale and retail clients. He quit his job and moved to the mountains of eastern North Carolina, a part of the country he had always wanted to explore. Savannah had finally realized her dream of having a successful design business in the fashion industry. Sales increased every year, as did the prices of her bags.

She then met Greer at a trade show, the publicist for a national chain of designer boutiques. Their marriage only lasted three years, long enough for Savannah to realize that the quiet man, who made her laugh with his unconventional sense of humor, was actually a depressed and angry person. She left when she got tired of his chameleon nature, when she realized that his irate mood wasn’t her fault, no matter how verbally abusive Greer became, no matter how often he accused her.

She is now thirty-five years old, divorced, and living in South Carolina, the place where she first met Ravenna. Back then, her bags were being sold at craft fairs throughout the Southeast rather than high-end boutiques, department stores, and gift shops. Ravenna’s booth had stood next to hers at a craft fair nine years ago in Columbia, one of Savannah’s first craft fairs, and she had marveled at Ravenna’s skill in sales, feeling as green as the grass underneath. from your stand. Rather than ignoring a newbie, Ravena befriended her and offered her lots of tips to increase sales, which worked and made the program profitable for both women.

Savannah knew without a doubt that the Goddess had put this Wiccan sister in the Office in her path that day, and they have remained best friends ever since. It’s no wonder Ravenna suggested that Savannah move to South Carolina after her divorce, encouraging her young friend to start over on friendly ground.

Last month, Savannah arrived with Horus and Thoth, rented a house in Irmo, just a mile away from Ravenna, and began to repair her altered self-esteem, trying to get out of the huge hole that had been opened in her heart by a abusive marriage.

“So the last thing I need is another man in my life,” she whispers, putting her work aside long enough to find the kitten sleeping peacefully on a pile of scraps of cloth. A smile lights up Savannah’s face and she laughs softly. “Even if he’s cute like you.”

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But you can’t ignore the feeling that this kitten came into your life for a reason, as if one of the fairies you communicate with every day whispered in your ear. Too distracted to keep sewing a row of old lace into a new bag, she walks into the living room toward her altar. Horus and Thoth sit by the sliding glass door, gurgling with the leaves that rain down from the oaks and elms, wagging their tails, imagining that each could be a sparrow or jay that they could chase.

Savannah opens the magic box containing her Wiccan tarot deck. Bast, the Egyptian goddess of cats, sits next to him, her serene feline face watching and waiting. Go back to the office and place the platform on the work table.

But before I can cast a sacred circle for a reading, the doorbell rings. Ravenna is standing on the front porch, the warm breeze fanning her long blonde hair in a linen cape, three small braids threaded, each tied with ribbons and rune charms, a basket of cat toys rolled over her arm.

“Weather station predicts a peak today in the 1980s.” Ravenna shakes her head. “It must be from South Carolina!” He walks through the door and hands the basket to Savannah. “These are for your new kitty,” he says, winking.

Savannah gasps. “How did you know?”

“I am a witch, remember?” Ravenna folds up and then laughs. “Seriously, I saw it on the tarot cards this morning.”

At that moment, the kitten storms out of Savannah’s office, dancing like a Samhain cat, and lunges under the couch.

“I can see the cards were fine as always,” says Ravena, flopping into a cushioned chair, as Savannah sets the basket on the coffee table and pulls the kitten out from under the couch.

“I’m glad you’re here anyway, since I can’t keep this kitten,” Savannah says, placing him next to the basket, which he dives into, fighting a catnip mouse. “I was hoping you could find him a home.”

Ravena ignores Savannah’s comment and picks the kitten up onto her lap, where it begins to purr loudly. “What do Thoth and Horus think of this little guy?”

Savannah shrugs and stretches out on the couch. “You know cats. They are never happy with a newcomer.”

Ravena scratches the kitten’s chin and he closes his eyes in ecstasy, his snowy throat rumbling. “You should call him Re, in honor of the Egyptian Sun God,” he muses, “because of his ivory skin and the Light he brings to this house.”

“The last thing I need is a new man in my life.” Savannah groans. “You know it better than anyone.”

“Yes,” Ravena says, her jade eyes twinkling, “but we all need Messengers of Light from the Goddess and the Fey.”

Savannah groans and waves her hands in surrender. “Okay, I give up,” he concedes. “What did the letters say?”

Ravena picks up the kitten and kisses its pink nose. “Do not reject this Messenger of Light,” he says quietly. “It could be a good fortune fairy in disguise.”

Real Estate

Real estate agent phobia

Somehow, in the world of buying and selling, there are few people who seem to have more power than they think they have. These people include loan officers at the bank, police officers and, believe it or not, real estate agents. There are some home buyers who are afraid to call the number on the outside of the home for fear that the real estate agent will want to “meet” with them in person. For some unknown reason, new home buyers think that real estate agents will bother them on the same level as a car salesman. That belief couldn’t be further from the truth.

I’ll get you a house today!

The car salesman has one goal and one goal. That goal is to get the prospective car buyer to get into a car that same day. The real estate agent, on the other hand, understands the fact that there is literally no possible way to get a home buyer to buy a home in one day. The fears that many first-time home buyers or new home buyers have about the real estate agent are as absurd as they could get. But where does this fear begin?

Most of the time, word of mouth about a bad real estate experience is what the buyer ends up dreading for the real estate profession. Home buyers have heard from a friend or friend of a friend that the real estate agent they worked with on the sale of their home or when they were trying to buy a home was slit their throats and tried to force them into a home that they did not like it. This fear is then passed down from friend to friend and to the prospective home buyer looking for the home you have listed. If a home buyer takes a risk and calls the number posted on the outside of the home, they are immediately on guard; waiting for the real estate agent to request a meeting.

How does the real estate agent overcome fear?

The best way for the real estate agent to deal with a potential home buyer’s fear of meeting with the agent is to suggest an open house in the future or offer to show the family the inside of the home before meeting. with them at home. real estate office. If the potential buyer likes the home, they will be more likely to stop fearing and talk to you about buying the home. It is important, when you meet the family or the couple for the first time, to offer them as much information as possible about the home; Both good and bad. By being completely open with the potential home buyer about the home, they will immediately fear less and trust more.

Shopping Product Reviews

Samsung LCD TVs: What’s New in Samsung’s 2008 LCD TV Lineup?

Samsung is one of the most popular and respected LCD TV manufacturers in the world. It’s no wonder they’re one of the best-selling TVs on the market. They have achieved this level of success by producing high-performance televisions at a reasonable price.

So what do we have to expect in the new models? Samsung has taken an already good LCD TV on its LNT models and made some improvements for this model year.

Samsung LCD TVs range from Series 3 corresponding to the previous xx42 models, Series 4 corresponding to models xx53, Series 5 corresponding to models xx61 and Series 6 corresponding to models xx71. They will also add 7 Series models.

The Series 3 and 4 models are 720p models and are available in models up to 40 inches. These TVs are designed with many of the same components as the higher-end models, so you still get a good TV, although it’s more of an entry-level model. LCD displays allow easy connectivity via side ports with hotkeys on the remote for easy access.

The Series 5 models open the door to 1080p for a full HD experience. They start with the 37-inch models and go all the way up to 52 inches, making them a great starting point for setting up your home theater system.

The 6 Series models add some significant performance improvements and are 120HZ models. Additionally, these Samsung LCD televisions include Ethernet connections for RSS downloads of weather information, stock prices, news and sports scores. Also new to this model is the Touch of Color, which adds an amber tint to the bezel for a more elegant design.

Samsung’s newer LCD TVs have improved performance by increasing the contrast ratio and improving the response rate of last year’s model. They have also made some improvements to Auto Motion Plus technology for their 120Hz televisions. Of course, all televisions are HDMI compliant and have multiple inputs for the many technologies that have come to use HDMI.

It will be interesting to see what developments emerge in the coming years. This is a great time for consumers entering the flat panel HD universe or for those looking to upgrade their existing setup as LCD displays continue to deliver a bigger and better picture along with lower prices. From the point of view of things, Samsung will continue to be the leader in the LCD TV market for years to come.

Sports

Champ Bailey Biography – His Early Years

One of the most respected defensive players in the NFL today would have to be Champ Bailey. He is often considered among the best (if not the best) NFL cornerbacks in the country. As a top cornerback in the NFL, he always puts in a solid effort and is known for his work ethic and leadership in the locker room. There are many things about this professional soccer player that people don’t know about. Since his youth, he has always shown potential as a top-level player and his brothers were by his side. Knowing a little about his upbringing could help you understand more about who he is and how he got to where he is now.

Biological Fields (cont.)

Boss, Champ and Ron

Many Broncos fans have heard of Champ and Boss, one of the few sibling combos that played for the Denver Broncos. The last time two brothers played on the same side of the ball for the Broncos was in ’92 with Doug and Dave Widell. The Bailey brothers’ story is similar to Manning’s story with Eli and Peyton. The Bailey brothers also include three members, although in both situations their older brother’s career was cut short due to injuries. Bailey’s older brother Ron was a 2-year starting cornerback at the University of Georgia (the same college that all the Bailey brothers played at). He also played for NFL Europe representing the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. Unfortunately, Ron’s career ended with a serious foot injury. Both Boss and Champ have credited Ron Bailey for their dedication and strong work ethic, Champ has explained multiple times how Ron’s guidance has been so influential in his own success, Ron set the tone for the rest of the family. Elaine Bailey (Mom) explained that Ron always talked about getting to the “next level,” whether it was in sports, education, or career, which she said inspired Champ and Boss to do it. The three brothers are highly respected in Folkston, Georgie, their hometown, of course for playing great football, but they were also considered good students. Boss and Champ visit their hometown frequently, sometimes hosting city-wide meals, sometimes during the holidays or other special events. To give you an idea of ​​Champs’ loyalty to home and family, when he put his name in the NFL draft, ESPN offered him a free plane ticket and a hotel in New York City, instead Champ chose go home and watch the NFL Draft with your family and hometown on television Another very close member of the family is Danielle Bailey, sister of Champs. Lives in Stockton, GA and hosts Bailey’s soccer camp. The parents of this distinguished group are Roland and Elaine Bailey, who are separated but still very close to their children and responsible for raising these fine individuals.

High school career

Champ Bailey attended Chalton County High, located in his hometown of Folkston, Georgia (a 3-traffic light city). He played soccer, basketball (no problem diving) and track (94 ‘Georgia high jump champion). While playing soccer, he showed immense potential on the field according to coaches and locals, playing quarterback and free safety. In his senior year, the coach moved him to running back and his quarterback was none other than his own brother Boss. Playing in the backfield on offense, Champ had more than 1,800 rushing yards and 28 touchdowns. Keep in mind; he achieved those stats during a 12-game season. Therefore, it is understandable that universities across the country wanted to add him to their own team. But, in the end, Bailey decided to go with her older brother Ron at the University of Georgia.