When you realize that your husband is no longer attracted to you, it can be a very difficult time for you. What you may not know, however, is that you’ve just taken a big step toward making him love you again and repairing your marriage simply by realizing that things aren’t right. When her husband falls in love with them, most wives don’t notice or just ignore it until her husband says he wants to divorce them.

If your husband is no longer attracted to you, you need to let him know how important “romance” is to you. We are women and when we are married, we love to assume the role of mother in preference to the role of “wife”; cooking, babysitting, etc. Being a wife is much more important when it comes to the romantic love your husband has for you. So, starting today, make an effort to arrange some alone time with your husband. The matter of the children can be easily resolved by doing this after they go to bed or by arranging for a relative to watch the children for a couple of hours so that you and her husband can spend time alone.

When you realize that your husband is not in love with you, you may feel the need to blame him for it. But it is the wrong approach since you will surely have changed throughout the marriage. Look at yourself, can you say that you haven’t changed a bit? When those changes are too much, your husband may not feel that attraction to the “new” you. Think about it and I’m sure you can find dozens of different things you’ve changed into. Although no one is the same at all ages, and you cannot go back to being the same as always; You can try to regain those positive qualities that you previously had but lost during the course of the marriage.

Don’t forget: even if your husband is no longer attracted to you, he once was. It is completely in your hands to recreate that situation again!

Be the loving wife you used to be and let go of that “mother” in you. You want to be a romantic figure, not a mother figure if you want your husband to fall in love with you again. I know what you were when you first got married!