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worst wedding guests

Well, the day of your dig is here and you’ve been assured that everything is in place and the ceremony will go off without a hitch. While you trust the venue staff, wedding planner, caterer, florist, and photographer, you’re unsure about some of your wedding guests. It can be stressful to think that the unpredictable or unpredictable behavior of your guests can leave a black eye on your wedding day memories. Even though your family and friends lists are full of interesting characters, let’s hope you don’t have too many of the following worst wedding guests:

crazy mother in law Yes, the one who sobbs uncontrollably and is quick to point out flaws in everything from the bride’s dress, to other guests and in-laws, from the ceremony to the newly established marriage.

inappropriate father-in-law In-laws don’t tend to be as emotional, but they can still show their discontent. They may prematurely take advantage of the elder’s leniency exception when they blurt out inappropriate comments, comments, and jokes. After their tirade, they can spend the rest of the ceremony in peaceful sleep, letting the special occasion pass.

Emotionless dad and girlfriend. It is forbidden for your dad and his girlfriend (if your parents are separated or divorced) to show any emotion or any indication that they are having fun.

emotional mom. Some moms can’t hide their excitement and will cry every moment of the wedding. To better deal with their emotions, most will either resort to exerting control over their wedding or turn to the bottle to drain their emotions.

Bridesmaids-Zillas. You really love and respect your bridesmaids. However, the emotions and responsibility of the day and their coveted positions can cause them to act strangely out of character. Some can become demanding and entitled monsters, while others accept your request to be their maid of honor, either out of obligation or some other ulterior motive.

Maid of Honor (Privilege). You have chosen your best friend, whom you have known almost since she was born, as your maid of honor. You have put trust and security in her. However, she is not bridesmaid material. The pressure can cause her to go on a power trip where she will manipulate, constantly complain about everything, make excuses for things, make unsolicited comments, crave the spotlight, and put her wants and needs before the girlfriend’s. .

Fraternity of groomsmen. You have a unique bond with the men at your wedding; So much so that you are like brothers. As close as you are, you know they love alcohol almost as much as your friendship. This means that they will probably have had their fill when their speeches come. You just hope they don’t share X-rated blackmail speeches.

He’s not your brother’s best man. Your sponsor has always had your back and he won’t let you down this time by telling everyone in attendance some of your deepest, darkest secrets and mistakes that shouldn’t be repeated in front of children.

Hateful and obscene brothers. Oh yeah, you can’t forget your brothers and sisters. Although they are adults, technically speaking, they still think and act like irresponsible, sex-starved teenagers with their “important people.” You just hope no one catches them kissing, getting drunk, or getting stoned in the parking lot.

Unpredictable and rebellious extended family. You have a large extended family, which means you don’t know everyone very well. However, he is concerned about some unpredictable and rebellious behavior. After all, you don’t want desperate cousins ​​flirting and making out with your groomsmen, gossipy aunts pressuring you to call off the wedding because they’ll be a better wife, screaming rebellious kids, and drunk uncles. In a way, you think that if things get really bad, your wedding could become a book or a movie.

Who is that and other “random” guests. Are these guests your great-grandmother’s second cousin that you “had to” invite twice, a “date” from one of the guests, or a random guy who just crashed your wedding for some free drink and cake and chances? to flirt?

While it’s impossible to completely predict and control guest behavior, it’s still important to enjoy your special day. There may be embarrassing and awkward moments, but why should they bring back a tarnished memory of their wedding?

Even if your wedding unexpectedly turns into one drama after another, having a professional and reliable wedding photographer to capture the moments that really matter and exclude those bad memories can give you peace of mind and help you better enjoy your wedding day. An experienced wedding photographer will know that these embarrassing guest behaviors are best remembered in the mind and not in the photo album.