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When parenting kicks in

When you were a kid, you often heard your parents yelling about how difficult being a parent is and that probably left a mark on you. Now you have a child and you are thinking “Now what?” Well, don’t be afraid, because we have some parenting tips that will assure you that parenting is just as hard as you say. Let’s start.

There are three things that you have to clarify from the beginning. You have three basic jobs to keep your kids in shape. That is parenting, education, health and wellness. When you realize that you must give your children food, a house, clothes and school, you are already on the right track, but the most important thing in parenting is that your children, sooner or later, become good people. . Once you side with that, everything is ready for you to make a plan.

There is a question to ask yourself: “What kind of adult do you want your child to become?”

Because what you sow now, you will reap later, since childhood is the age of our lives that most defines our character.

You should always try to be an example to your children and show yourself how they should be, because children at a younger age (and even older) are taking their parents as role models.

Remember that it is you who is giving them a vivid image of this world, and that they perceive you as the one who is always there to protect them, which leads us to something else: balance. You should always keep work and play time and time spent together relatively the same with time spent apart. You have to prepare them for life, and the sooner you realize that this is your main role, the much easier things will be.

Teach him to differentiate between good and evil, prepare him to socialize and prepare him that there are all kinds of people in this world, both good and bad, and that he will have to adapt to his environment.

Set high expectations for their education and behavior, but don’t be too harsh on them if they don’t meet those expectations – reward them when they do.

You should always let them express themselves and be who they are, and only give them enough guidelines to make them a strong and healthy person.