Prostate massage has become very popular for sexual pleasure to intensify orgasm during masturbation or with a partner. Since the most direct way to massage your man’s Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated this way. And it’s not for all men. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense for most men.

Before beginning the prostate massage, your partner may want to urinate and/or have a bowel movement and take a shower to cool off. Make sure your nails are trimmed and smooth so there are no rough edges or wear a latex glove or finger glove for safer anal play. Also have enough lubricant available.

It’s important for your partner to be relaxed, so starting with a good sensual massage is great, and when you’re both ready, you can start massaging your partner’s prostate externally. It is easiest to have him lying on his back and then, with the pads of your index and middle fingers, you can touch, rub, stroke, or press on his perineum (the area of ​​skin under the testicles up to the anus), trying out various sensations and pressures. Use your other hand to caress other parts of her body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so talk to your partner about what makes you feel good.

You don’t want to go in too fast with your finger, so continue massaging the outside of the anus until it becomes soft and pliable, and not resistant to your touch. You can do this in slow, steady circular motions.

Insert your finger(s) about an inch or so, and when your partner feels comfortable, move your finger(s) up along the forward-facing wall of the rectal lining from his body. Try to locate a round bulge of tissue – this is the prostate. Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a “come here” motion. Remember that the prostate gland is a very delicate organ and must be treated with care at all times.

At the same time that you are massaging your prostate, cup your penis with your hand or mouth. Some men can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone, but most men need additional stimulation.

If he truly finds pleasure in this experience, hopefully you will see him escalate to one of the most intense orgasms he has ever had. If not, at least you will learn together, build trust with each other and try something new.