Making a guy want you is pretty simple, but how do you make him fall in love with you? For most women, making a guy want them is a simple matter of dressing provocatively and flirting outrageously. But making them fall in love is a completely different matter.

Most men have trouble distinguishing between lust and love. They fall in and out of lust quite easily. But how does a woman attract a man so that he goes beyond her initial physical attraction to her and gives her heart to him?

There are a couple of pretty simple ways that really work to get the relationship from the stage of lust to real love.

1 – Make him feel good

Encourage him to talk about his interests. If you can make him feel good about himself by sharing his enthusiasms, he will respond by associating those good feelings with you. All you have to do is show interest in the things he’s passionate about (sports, for example) and it won’t take long for him to pass on his passion for his favorite team. You don’t have to know much about the subject, just listen and respect their knowledge and interest.

2 – Don’t try to rush it

Even if you’ve fallen deeply in love with him, don’t try to pressure him into expressing his love for you before he’s ready. Men tend to take longer than women to develop and express their feelings. It can seem like he’s taking forever to “get to know you” before committing to strong feelings for you. But if he still wants to be with you, it is a sign that you are really falling for him and you need to be patient and let his feelings develop. So it’s up to you to try to relax, have fun and wait for him to catch up.

If you follow these two simple rules, chances are he’ll fall in love with you at his own pace, and that’s the kind of love that lasts!