Have you ever found out that the man you want to be in a relationship with is someone whose heart has been broken before? What do you do in such a situation? How do you penetrate the walls he has built around his heart? This is a practical situation. He often makes girls cry. You know that he has what it takes to be a good husband to you so much so that you find him attached to your dream of a good and happy home. But because some “girl” has treated him badly and broken his heart, he has decided not to fall in love again.

How do you win and keep the love of a man whose heart has been broken before? How do you find your way into his heart and assure him you’re not a heartthrob? How do you make him believe that girls are not the same? And how do you make him feel safe with you? Here is another practice exposed on how to win the love of a broken hearted man.

The first step is friendship. Since he is not ready for another love relationship, you can start a relationship on the note of friendship. Don’t go up to him and ask him to be your friend, he will most likely see you as another demon coming to break his heart. The easiest way is to reach him through his friends or siblings. These people have sympathized and empathized with him. He believes in them. Seeing you as a friend of a friend, brother or sister means to him that you are not harmful after all, at least as a friend.

When you have managed to become his friend, try asking him about his past relationship and sympathize with him. He condemns the hurtful acts of his ex-girlfriend and promotes the ideals that would have sustained that relationship. If you’ve been hurt before, tell him how it happened and tell him how you got back on your feet. This is a good way to start a friendship.

Think about possible means to help him recover from the painful memories of the previous relationship. He make him get used to being with a girl again. Invite him to places where you can talk and have fun.

Call him at intervals and text him from time to time just to let him know that you appreciate him as a good friend. Don’t forget to buy him gifts on the anniversary of his birthday and other memorable days. Don’t buy him casual gifts, but rather ones that suggest that he means a lot to you and that you love him. With these gestures, you will discover that he is on the way to love again. And before you know it, he will compliment your efforts and explicitly ask you out.

Once you start a love relationship between the two of you, avoid everything that happened in your previous relationship. This is the main way to catch and keep it.