Are you sick and tired of being just one of the guys at the bar trying to attract a pretty girl? If you’re like me, it was always a weird feeling and I didn’t like it. He wanted attention, he wanted to be the guy she passed everyone else to talk to. The problem is that I don’t look like Brad Pitt, nor do I have six pack abs or a Ferrari. So I didn’t know how to be so attractive to the women in my circle. So I spent time studying it and came up with some simple things, but very effective. I’ve shared a few of these on my blog before, but some of these are new.

One of the best ways to attract women is to have a woman by your side. There is something psychological for women in a guy who already has a woman. Now the woman you have with you may just be a friend, it doesn’t really matter. For the other women in the room, it at least makes them see you as someone who should have good qualities, at best it makes them see your “friend” as competition. In either case, you win!

Stop agreeing with everything he says. Now I’m not telling you to start an argument with her, but what I’m telling you is that to stand out you have to do things differently. Most guys just look at a girl and agree with everything that comes out of her mouth. She could say the sky is falling and they’d say “yes, ma’am.” This is boring and ridiculous for a woman. She challenges her thoughts when she says something. This will engage her in a deeper conversation. That is definitely a win for you!

Become the alpha male in the room, what do I mean “alpha male”? Well, in the wild, females don’t usually mate with males like we do. All females are typically attracted to the single, powerful and supreme male. So in essence, if you’re not that guy, you don’t get any. All the rest of the males are pushed into the dreaded “friend zone”. There are easy ways to become the alpha male no matter what group you are in. When you’re the alpha male, you really don’t have to work hard to win!

Following these ideas will take you far when it comes to meeting and dating women. Unfortunately, our mom just didn’t know how to prepare us to attract women. Our dad usually doesn’t either. Society does a pretty bad job of teaching men how to be respectful but attractive. Now you have the tools to get started. Once you do, you’ll see that it really isn’t as hard as you think.