The “Big Four” Factors That Attract Women To A Certain Man
I’m pretty much talking about what I call the “Big Four.” However, it has occurred to me that I have never dedicated an article to making sure you have the exact concept I’m talking about down to the pinpoint.
“About time,” someone said. And I have no arguments for you there.
Although better late than never. So let’s fix the situation.
The “Big Four”, in principle, are the most basic and fundamental factors that decide whether a woman is attracted to you or not.
Do them right, and women will respond powerfully to you. Ignore them (or worse yet… be ignorant OF them) and you could spend the rest of your life wondering what the problem is.
Obviously, this is one of the most important newsletters I’ve written to you.
Before I break down the “Big Four,” I want to offer an honest warning: There is NO WAY this newsletter is going to cover every nuance of what these concepts entail.
That’s fine for now, because my goal in writing to you today is not to cover minute details, but rather to give you a “big picture” view that provides a valid framework to work from as you discover more and more how to deserve what you want. .
After all, literally everything I speak or write depends on the “Big Four.”
So without further introduction, here they are:
1) Masculinity
Last time we talked about how to “man up” exactly the way women want us to. That is the first component of the “Big Four”.
Men and women are designed to be attracted to each other. This is such a fundamentally simple concept, yet one that is so easily clouded in today’s world.
Men are softening their demeanors, taking the edge off the strength that makes them inherently male. Instead, they are giving in to the temptation to become more feminine in the name of “sensitivity.”
You, as a man who desires feminine and attractive women, must absolutely and positively resist the feminization of your personality and lifestyle.
If you read that as “being insensitive” or any other misogynistic way, you’ve been duped, duped, duped, duped, and every other synonym for “duped” you’ve ever heard before in an old cartoon.
Really.
Being masculine is NOT synonymous with acting like a low-evolved “caveman” who rapes, loots, and is responsible for all forms of pain on Earth. Be the guy who leads, plans, protects, and decides like a man. Put aside “softness” and “weakness” while maintaining sincere benevolence towards everyone.
And watch how women are drawn to you like a magnet to steel.
2) Trust
If you know what you want and don’t act out of fear or indecision, then by definition you lack confidence. A woman wants a man that she directs, and contrary to what you may have heard elsewhere, she wants a man who will take charge of her own destiny and SELECT it out of her.
That’s right, YOU MUST BE THE VOTER. Offloading that responsibility onto women, or dismissing it entirely as mythical is COP OUT. As a man who is comfortable with the fact that he deserves what he wants, his inner game must be close enough for him to ACT ON it.
In concept, confidence is no more complicated than a firmly held belief in your ability to succeed at a high level while ruling out the possibility of failure (preferably completely).
So at the bottom line, trust is absolutely necessary for you to be able to meet the women you want, let alone demonstrate your ability to provide a balanced environment for the relationship to grow.
This transitions nicely to the next factor…
3) Inspire confidence
Once you’ve reached a level of confidence that allows a woman to believe in you the way you believe in yourself (which has an important cause/effect relationship), then you’re ready to make a difference in your relationships with her. MOTOS (Members of The Opposite). Sex) that is intensely powerful.
It’s like this: Women want SECURITY.
Unfortunately, the man women most need to protect themselves from is the ONE THEY ARE WITH.
If you drive like a maniac when she’s riding shotgun, openly flirt with other women in her presence, lose decisions, have absolutely zero ambition, and have no idea what to do with her when you pick her up (let alone when it’s KISS TIME ELLA), guess what? She will have no sense of stability around you.
Not knowing what to expect next is fun for women when it comes to special surprises, unannounced plans, and other light moments that contribute to “being unpredictable.” And of course, if you’re boring and unexciting, IT’S NO FUN for women. In fact, one could effectively argue that “Being Fun and Interesting” could have made this list a “Big Five.”
But what we are covering here is something deeper. YOU are like a bastion of strength, no matter what or when it happens.
This builds the most important measure of trust in your heart and mind.
When you have made a woman believe in you the way you believe in yourself, no matter what the situation, you have INSPIRED CONFIDENCE. She can stay in your presence.
Without it, she’ll feel you, if she’s not repulsed.4) Character
This is one of the most misunderstood terms in the English language.
Do not fool yourself. “Character” should not be confused with “being a character”. Simply letting go of routines and openers does NOT equal the “character-based” seduction as some “natural game” advocates would have you believe.
“Character” is rock-solid stability at your core. It’s doing the right thing simply because it’s the right thing to do, not because of “what’s in it for you.” A man of character promises only what he is capable of delivering and often delivers more than he promises out of sheer self-improvement.
It does what it says it’s going to do and avoids disappointment. It’s all about building others up instead of tearing them down in a feeble attempt to appear “better.” The man of character realizes that this is neither ethical nor even effective.
In general, the man of character has his identity figured out and his conscience agrees with it.
And when it’s all done, you will NEVER, EVER have to ask “What do I do now?” “Character” is “seductive” by definition.
Do you get the feeling that each separate component of the “Big Four” is in fact the component of a larger cohesive concept? If so, then YES… you are 100% right. It’s like they each contribute to and actually amplify each other.
And that “biggest concept” is, in case you haven’t figured it out, HOW TO BE A GREAT MAN.
And GREAT MEN attract and deserve GREAT WOMEN.
It all comes down to this: A GREAT WOMAN wants a man who has her bottom covered so she can be RELEASED to be the feminine woman she was born to be. You make her feel like a woman, and you are that man.
If you miss it, you sit back down to figure out how two neutral creatures are supposed to be attracted to each other… which, of course, is a pointless exercise. Unless, of course, you agree with a neutral woman. Or one who “wears the pants”.
But I tell you, show me a woman who “wears the pants” and I’ll show you a BITTER woman, not a BETTER woman.
So why force her to do both jobs? Why enforce her on the masculine and feminine?
Or is it really okay for you to cover the feminine part?
If so, good luck with that.
But my vision for you is much, much nobler than that. All you have to do is visualize it for yourself.
