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What you need to know about taxis in Paris

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If you have just landed in Paris and want to hire a taxi, this article is for you. It is good to know that taxis in the city operate 24 hours a day; therefore, you are guaranteed to get a car regardless of what time you land.

How to get a taxi

If you are at the Paris airport, there is a specific area where the taxis are parked and you just have to go there and choose the car you want. If you are at Charles de Gaulle and Orly airports, you should look for signs and icons indicating taxi pick-up areas.

If you are in Paris and don’t want to book a taxi in advance, you can find plenty of taxis at transport and train hubs, such as Gare du Nord, Gare St Lazare, Gare du Montparnasse, and Gare de L’Est.

If you want to go to Charles de Gaulle airport, you should take a taxi from Gare du Nort or Gare de L’Est. Fares from these points are slightly cheaper.

If you are going to Orly airport, you should take a taxi from the Denfert-Rochereau or Gare Montparnasse RER station.

The amount that taxis charge is not cheap, but at the same time it is not bad considering that you are operating within the city. For example, if you are planning to move from Charles De Gaulle airport to a hotel located in the center of Paris, you should be prepared to part with €50.

Please note that this amount is subject to change based on traffic, hotel location, and whether you are traveling day or night.

Unlike other places in Europe where drivers accept cards, this is not the case in Paris. Because of this, you must be prepared to pay cash. While most drivers accept cash, there are some that accept card payments. Their taxis usually have a sign in the rear side window.

taxi complain

It is not guaranteed that you will have a great experience with the taxi you hire. If you have a complaint, you should report it to the police. The good side is that the police have an active website where you can leave a report. The website also has a phone number that you can call to report your dissatisfaction.

conclusion

This is what you need to know about taxis in Paris. While there are plenty of taxis in the city, you should only work with reputable companies.

Arts Entertainments

Body language – 5 secrets to get what you want!

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Body language is a powerful tool that can affect the way we think and influence the decisions we make. When used skillfully, it is possible to influence others and make them think and react the way you want them to behave, by first strategically projecting your own body movements, facial expressions, and intentional gestures.

Projecting powerful signals and avoiding a few simple pitfalls will serve you best in two simple ways:

1. You will look and feel more confident when you use positive body language. When you move and carry yourself with confidence and seem to “project” positive vibes, you immediately feel more balanced and in control.

2. Body language communication is contagious. We tend to imitate each other in conversation. Have you noticed how we seem to match the rate of speech, body movements, gestures, and facial expressions of the other person?

Isn’t it amazing that we do this every day when we communicate? Yet we do it, without even realizing it.

If you use positive body language, the other person is more likely to use positive body language (mirror you), which in turn will make the other person feel certain emotions (happier or more confident in their decisions, etc.)

Caution: The reverse is also true, so don’t display body language movements, facial expressions, or gestures that are negative in tone or thought, if you don’t intend to do so.

We know that using positive body language improves everyone’s mood. See how a comedian can use gestures, facial expressions, and body movements to make an audience laugh. Very often, the verbal message is funny, but the body language simply amplifies the humor and reaction of the audience.

Here are some ways to communicate positively more effectively without the use of words:

1. Pay attention to your own positive signals that you project.

has. Make direct eye contact whenever possible. Around 70% is acceptable in North America and the UK. In Japan, for example, the acceptable “gasification rate” is closer to 50% and in most Scandinavian countries, acceptable “gasification rates” can be as high as 90%. Realize that cultural differences are one of the three keys in interpreting body language.

b. Smile or relax your lips. Avoid pursing your lips or repeatedly touching your face. No one trusts someone who repeatedly touches their face while talking.

against Stand with an open posture. Keep your arms and legs loose and relaxed and try to stand to the side, either at a slight angle to the other person or right eye to right eye if you are directly facing the other person. Looking into the other person’s left eye is more comfortable when speaking or listening.

d. Keep your palms facing up and your hands relaxed as you speak. It is important that the open palm is revealed more often when gesturing when speaking. This appeals to the unconscious mind that you are not threatening.

me. Avoid nervous or fidgety gestures, such as tapping your nails or jingling your change. This indicates that a high level of “internal dialogue” or “internal chatter” is taking place. It can project that you are anxious, restless and nervous or that you just want to move on.

2. Pay close attention to the other person’s body language as you carry on the dialogue. Watch out for signs of negative body language or clues that the customer is bored. This could be the other person starting to look over her shoulder, fiddling with a jacket zipper, jingling keys, preening with sundries like scarves, gloves, and hats. These are displays of emotion and attitude.

3. Subtly begin to mimic the other person’s body language. If the customer leans forward, you should lean forward showing interest. If your arms are crossed, cross yours too, but show your fingers and make sure they are spread apart. Once you’re in harmony, start leading. Test to see if you can lead. For example, if you’re having dinner with someone, take their glass of water. If they also reach theirs and follow your example, you are now in harmony!

4. When you want to inject a more positive tone into the conversation, slowly change your body language to appear more positive. Uncross your arms and legs, tilt your head slightly when listening, and straighten your head when speaking. No one is taken seriously when they speak with their heads bowed in business. (Note: when dating or flirting, the head tilt works wonders and is extremely powerful.)

5. It is important to note the following. Try not to change your body language (excessive body movements, touching your face, twitching knees, figure four) when you start talking because this will usually indicate that you are trying to take control of the conversation. If possible, you are more attractive if you can first change or during a pause, have a relaxed posture, and then start talking.

In short, pay attention and strategically control your body language and observe the reactions you receive from others. With practice, you will begin to realize how effective it is to strategically use your own body to infect the other person and get the desired result.

You’ll be amazed at how simple it is to get what you want, when you want it, without saying a word!

Technology

Kodak PlaySport HD Waterproof Pocket Camcorder

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Kodak PlaySport HD Waterproof Pocket Video Camera NEWEST MODEL

Kodak has come out with a new version of its Z18 pocket camcorder. This new model which they called Zx3 or PlaySport is really just a modified Z18 in a waterproof case.

They have made the case quite strong so that it can withstand rough handling (even falling from a height as small as a few feet) and coated with a kind of rubber cover so that it doesn’t slip out of your hand. This is primarily beneficial when worn while swimming.

Out of today’s range of pocketable mini cameras, this has to be the best package of features and performance.

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Characteristic

  • Choice of 1080 HD (Widescreen) at 30 frames or 720 at 60 frames per second.
  • Sun protection function. This feature gives you a choice of two filters that you can use so you can see your shot on the view screen when shooting outdoors in bright sunlight. (No effect oh the real shot)
  • Built-in smart face tracking software in close-up shots
  • Slow motion playback to really see what happened
  • You can easily upload to Facebook and YouTube because Playsport comes with built-in software and a USB cable ready to go.
  • Record up to 10 hours (with larger cards)
  • Water resistant to 10 feet
  • It also has a special filter when used underwater to counteract poorer light underwater so images come out clearer.
  • Still shots from this camera are 5mp and in 1080 HD, which is very good for such a small unit, although many phones are now at this level.
  • Built-in image stabilization, which means less jitter when you’re chasing the action.
  • The KODAK PLAYSPORT works with MAC and PC

Included

ARCSOFT MEDIA IMPRESSION Software for Kodak (PC only)

HDMI (high-definition multimedia interface) cable and AV (audiovisual) cable, which means you can connect your Kodak PlaySport directly to your TV or computer.

Rechargeable lithium-ion battery with in-camera charging, which means you don’t have to remove the battery to recharge and can be charged at any time, even if you just want to recharge. No bad memories like old Ni-cad.

General

Other reviewers have said that they like the unit and agree that it is very easy for children to use. It can certainly withstand some rough handling. Personally, I believe that children should be taught to handle technical equipment with care and some respect, and not expect very complex equipment to withstand careless handling.

Still, I can see these units being given to children as toys and it’s a shame because the unit deserves better than that.

While it can’t match the performance levels of more expensive equipment, it still requires great HD video that people could only dream of a few short years ago.

For someone who wants really good instant video, this little unit is very hard to beat for performance, quality, and affordability.

Business

A recap of the wedding rehearsal dinner

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The wedding rehearsal dinner is usually the last of the pre-wedding parties. In a way it serves to start the celebrations in earnest. However, it does not only serve this purpose. This event gives the bride and groom the opportunity to thank those closest to them for all their harsh words, help and support throughout the wedding planning process.

First of all, when planning the dinner, you will need to decide how many people you will invite. In general, rehearsal dinners tend to be small events attended only by the bridal party and close friends. This should give you a good opportunity to spend some valuable time with each of your guests. However, you may want to expand your guest list. Partners and spouses of members of your wedding party are often invited to attend, as they will usually be present at the wedding as well. If there is someone outside of your wedding party or immediate family who contributed a lot during the planning of the wedding, it might also be a good idea to invite them to join you.

Traditionally, the rehearsal dinner is held the night before the wedding. While this is not always possible, as a general rule, dinner should be after the rehearsal of the ceremony, which is usually, but not always, the day before the wedding. You may even find that holding the event a couple of days before the wedding gives you a little more time to kick back and relax, or run around in a last-minute panic, before the big day.

Dinner is generally less formal than the reception, so you may want to let the venue you choose and the general atmosphere reflect that. A popular option is to hold the event at a local restaurant. However, if you’re really feeling adventurous, you may want to organize it yourself in your own home. Most brides and grooms find that they are too busy in the run-up to the wedding to host dinner themselves, so a restaurant is often the norm. The final decision is ultimately up to you, but you shouldn’t make the rehearsal dinner so elaborate and elegant that it overshadows the wedding day.

Home Kitchen

2011 C-Class Holiday Rambler Aluma-Lite Product Review

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The 2011 Holiday Rambler Aluma-Lite is available in 3 floor plans. The 23RB floor plan features a queen-size bed, a dinette cabin that converts to a bed, and a full-size bunk above the cabin. The 31WBS floor plan features a slider room with a 62-inch sofa, plus a queen-size bed, a cabin-style dinette, and an over-cabin bunk. The 31SFD floor plan, the true crown jewel, features 2 slider bedrooms offering maximum space for your family.

The RV is built on a Ford E350 chassis or a Ford E450 chassis with a 6.8L Triton V-10 gasoline engine with electronic fuel injection and 305 HP. Shifts are smooth with the 5-speed TorqShift automatic transmission with overdrive.

Driving the RV is a dream with the optional power leatherette driver’s seat, in-dash AM/FM/CD stereo, Sirius radio compatibility, reverse camera monitor system with DVD player and multi-position sunshades.

Standard appliances located throughout the coach include a full-size side-by-side refrigerator, 3-burner stove, lighted electric range hood and built-in microwave. The living area comes with a 26″ LCD TV on the 31WBS. Optional equipment includes an additional 26″ TV in the overhead sleeping area and a 19″ LCD TV in the bedroom.

The interior features beautiful Newport cherry cabinets with square raised panel doors. In the kitchen, the cabinets are transferred to the wood fiber refrigerator panels. An optional Fulton cherry cabinetry package is also available.

Aluma-Lite lengths range from 23′ 11″ to 32′ 4″ depending on the model and desired floor plan. Overall height is 10′ 8″.

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Top 5 Hybrid Cars of 2011

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A hybrid vehicle is a vehicle that uses two or more different energy sources to move the vehicle. The term most commonly refers to hybrid electric vehicles (HEVs), which combine an internal combustion engine and one or more electric motors. Hybrid vehicles are popular because they appeal to a wide range of consumers. The environmentally conscious may appreciate the ultra-low or zero emissions and incredible fuel economy, while the economically minded may appreciate the low vehicle depreciation and cost savings at the gas station. I have listed the Top 5 Hybrid Car List below and you can decide which is the best hybrid car for you.

1.Toyota Prius hybrid

Toyota Prius is the third best-selling gasoline-electric hybrid model in the United States. The Toyota company produced its first hybrid Prius car in 2003. Toyota started selling its third generation Toyota Prius in 2009. When they sell the third generation, other companies start to introduce their first hybrid car.

specs

Larger and more powerful than previous models, the four-cylinder engine grew in displacement from 1.5 liters to 1.8 litres, combined with a 36 kW electric motor, reduced time from zero to 60 in a full second, increases horsepower from 110 to 134, MPG: 51 city/48 highway.

2. Honda Insight Hybrid

This new five-passenger Insight continues to use Honda’s conventional mild-hybrid system called Integrated Motor Assist. While it’s less expensive than the Toyota Prius, it’s also less roomy and rear access is awkward. The ride is stiff and choppy and road noise is pronounced. The handling lacks agility and can be tricky at the limits. Stability control is conspicuously absent on the base LX trim, but it’s standard on the EX. The crash test results are impressive.

specs

Automatic climate control, remote keyless entry, power windows, door locks and outside mirrors, tilt/telescoping steering column, manual driver’s seat height adjustment, AM/FM/CD audio system with two speakers, entry auxiliary audio and unique seat fabric. All Insight models are equipped with electronic stability control as standard for 2011.

3.Ford Fusion Hybrid

The Ford Fusion Hybrid was launched on the United States market in March 2009 as a 2010 model, along with its twin, the Mercury Milan Hybrid. This is a gasoline-electric hybrid version of the mid-size Ford Fusion sedan developed by the Ford Motor Company. The Ford Fusion Hybrid sets a new benchmark in hybrid technology. It combines a seamless and sophisticated hybrid powertrain with the excellent Fusion platform, positioned solidly in the middle of the mainstream market.

specs

10-way power adjustable driver’s seat, dual-zone climate control, automatic headlights, keyless entry, power windows, mirrors and locks, capless refueling, traction control and ABS. Also included are a six-speaker stereo, eco-responsible seats, 17-inch wheels, traction control, and a reverse sensor.

4.Honda CR-Z Hybrid

Honda’s latest foray into the hybrid realm, the CR-Z, is a fresh take on the hybrid thing. Honda is marketing the CR-Z as a sporty hybrid, rather than a purely eco-friendly car. CR-Z stands for ‘Compact Renaissance Zero’, which likely plays into its new approach of using a hybrid engine to deliver a mix of sportiness and economy. But no matter how Honda explains how they ended up with the CR-Z name, the car is an obvious successor to the popular CRX hatchback of the 1980s and early 1990s.

specs

Heated mirrors, fog lights and HID projector headlights inside, this hybrid gains Bluetooth, available navigation, a leather-wrapped steering wheel, aluminum pedals and polished interior accents, a six-speed manual transmission with an aluminum shifter and ambient lighting. heated mirrors, fog lights and HID projector headlamps. Inside, this hybrid gains Bluetooth, available navigation, a leather-wrapped steering wheel, aluminum pedals and polished interior trim, a six-speed manual transmission with an aluminum shifter, and ambient lighting. CR-Z stands for ‘Compact Renaissance Zero’, which likely plays into its new approach of using a hybrid engine to deliver a mix of sportiness and economy. But no matter how Honda explains how they ended up with the CR-Z name, the car is an obvious successor to the popular CRX hatchback of the 1980s and early 1990s.

5. Lexus RX 450H Hybrid

Lexus has timed the unveiling of its latest RX450h to perfection, at a time when green issues are making headlines and buyers at all price points are taking a close look at fuel economy and carbon dioxide emissions. Where this generation takes a big step forward is in those specific figures, offering a supposed reduction in fuel consumption of 28 percent. The Lexus RX model has been on sale since 2001 and has always offered a comfortable, road-oriented take on the SUV sector.

specs

Gas Mileage is 32 city/28 highway mpg, Engine Type: 3.5L V6 Gas/Electric, EPA Class: 2WD Sport Utility, Style Name: FWD 4dr Hybrid, Drivetrain: Front Wheel Drive, Capacity Passenger Capacity: 5, Passenger Doors: 4, Body Style: Sport Utility.

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Digital Marketing

What do all these mobile marketing definitions mean?

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For many people, the mobile marketing term it is often seen simply as a form of advertising delivered to a mobile phone from an advertising company or service. At one time this definition might have been correct, but mobile marketing has gone far beyond the simple act of sending an ad to a mobile phone. In fact, the term mobile marketing can now be considered a kind of umbrella term to cover all aspects of delivering or receiving information with your target audience through a mobile device. The Mobile Marketing Association has recently updated its definition of mobile marketing to reflect this change.

Its definition states: “Mobile marketing is a set of practices that enables organizations to communicate and engage with their audience in an interactive and relevant manner through any mobile device or network.” Increasingly, mobile marketers are moving from sending content to the consumer to a new model that is more interactive and engages with the consumer in an interesting or meaningful way.

There are many advertising methods that fall into the category of mobile marketing:

* mobile web marketing

* Services based on rent

* SMS (Short Message Service)

* MMS (Multimedia Message Service)

* Marketing in the game

What other ad types and mobile marketing definitions do you need to know to be successful?
Mobile web marketing involves posting ads on websites designed specifically for mobile devices. This is a very common form of mobile ads and has been steadily growing. Many people access the Internet through their smartphones and these phones do not usually have a full browser to view web pages. To accommodate this, website owners create custom versions of their web pages that are specifically tailored to be viewed on mobile phone browsers. Since these pages are not the same as normal web pages, new advertisements are provided for them. Advertising on these mobile web pages ensures that the ads are seen by those who use mobile devices. These ads will typically take the viewer to the advertiser’s mobile-optimized page if clicked. Companies like Google, Yahoo, and Microsoft are among the largest companies that sell ad space on their mobile content pages, specifically on their search pages.

A location-based service is one that allows an advertiser to deliver advertisements or other information to a mobile device based on its physical location. Location-based services are offered by cell phone networks that can track the general location of a mobile phone user through the process of triangulation. If the mobile phone user has his GPS system activated, this will also help him to identify his location in a much more specific way. Once the network can figure out where the user is, the advertiser can send an ad based on that location. For example, if someone walks down a street with a Starbucks on the corner, the location-based service can recognize that the person is near a Starbucks and send them an advertisement for the store. A more passive version of this is to place a physical base station in a specific location. When someone approaches you and has authorized the network to send you messages, the base station can send location-specific information or announcements to your mobile device.

SMS marketing are advertisements that are served through text messages. This is a very common form of mobile marketing and it can work both ways. Advertisers can send messages to a network of mobile users at a time, while mobile users can send text messages to the advertiser’s short code. The short code is the 5 or 6 digit number that many advertisers use in their SMS communications. A common example is after the earthquake that hit Haiti, people were encouraged to text 90999. That five-digit number is the short code for the American Red Cross. Short code numbers are valid for all mobile carriers in a specific nation. They tend to be expensive, so they are generally used by larger companies.

MMS marketing is similar to SMS marketing, but allows for more than just text messaging. Users can send images, videos or audio, as well as text, to the company running the campaign. In some cases, this can be used in real time, such as when Motorola teams up with House of Blues to provide real-time concert photos on a stage-side screen.

In-game marketing is becoming more and more common with the rise in popularity of online gaming. One of the most common uses of in-game marketing is to provide relevant ads to a target population. For example, car companies often place in-game advertisements like banners in car racing games to advertise their brand or a specific car. It seems that this is part of the game, but the placement has been paid for. Another form of marketing is event sponsorships or statistics. For example, Old Spice sponsors a stat in the Madden 11 soccer game called Swagger. This coincided with the launch of his new deodorant, also called Swagger.

As the definition of the Mobile Marketing Association shows, mobile marketing covers a wide spectrum of activities. As mobile technology changes and grows, the definition of mobile marketing has to grow along with it.

Health Fitness

What diet is good for a marathon?

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Nutrition is often an overlooked element of marathon training. The right nutrition plan will make those long training runs seem so much easier!

Food is your source of energy. All foods are made up of carbohydrates, proteins, fats, and fiber. Carbohydrates are linked to energy production, complete proteins are linked to tissue repair and building, fat provides fuel for the body, and fiber is fiber.

Most foods will have trace amounts of all of these macronutrients, but each one is usually rich in one. ALL are necessary in your diet.

carbohydrates

Your body burns carbohydrates more efficiently than fat or protein. Consider increasing your carbohydrate intake to 60-70% of your daily food intake.

Runners benefit the most from the amount of carbohydrate stored in the body. Carbohydrates produce more energy per unit of oxygen consumed than fats. What this means is that you get more energy for running when your body burns carbohydrates than when your body burns fat or protein. Because oxygen is often the limiting factor in long-duration events, your body will have an easier time using the energy source that requires the least amount of oxygen per kilocalorie of energy produced. (energy is measured in kilocalories)

Your body makes energy by converting carbohydrates into glucose. When you exercise at a moderate pace, carbohydrates provide 40 to 50 percent of your energy requirement. As you begin to run harder, carbohydrates provide a higher percentage of your energy needs. It is difficult for your body to break down protein and fat into glucose to provide energy. Therefore, your body first burns carbohydrates. The harder you work, the more difficult it becomes for your body to devote energy to breaking down protein and fat. That energy could be used to propel you forward in the race.

The best sources of carbohydrates for your marathon training

Carbohydrate needs are commonly based on the runner’s body size and activity level. Runners who engage in low-intensity, moderate-duration exercise require 5 to 7 g of carbohydrate per kilogram of body weight. In contrast, those who participate in long-duration, high-intensity exercise require 7 to 12 g of carbohydrates per kilogram of body weight.

All carbohydrates are not created equal.

The best sources of carbohydrates in your diet

  • Fruit,
  • vegetable,
  • Integral rice,
  • enriched whole grain breads,
  • whole grain cereals,
  • oatmeal,
  • Beans,
  • vegetables
  • sweet potatoes

(Note: Cheetos, cookies, and tortilla chips are not listed.)

fat

The next macronutrient the body will use during exercise is fat.

Fat is not the enemy. The fat created from an excess of cheetos is. (Remember that excess of any macronutrient (carbohydrates, proteins, fats) is converted to fat). For moderate exercise, about half of total energy expenditure is derived from free fatty acid metabolism. If the event lasts more than an hour, the body may use mostly fat for energy. The use of fat for fuel depends on the duration of the event and the condition of the runner. Trained athletes use fat for energy faster than untrained athletes. (This is one of the long-term adaptation mechanisms in marathon training.)

The best sources of fat in your diet

  • walnuts
  • Seeds
  • nut butter
  • fatty fish
  • fish oil supplements
  • flax seed oil
  • Safflower oil
  • canola oil
  • sunflower oil
  • corn oil
  • Lawyers
  • egg yolks

protein

After carbohydrates and fats, proteins provide the body with energy. You also need protein to repair muscle tissue that is damaged during exercise. While exercise can increase an athlete’s need for protein, most Americans tend to eat more than the recommended amounts of protein.

A protein intake of 10 to 12 percent of total calories is sufficient. Most authorities recommend that endurance athletes consume between 1.2 and 1.4 grams of protein per kg of body weight per day. Remember, extra protein is stored as fat.

It’s doubtful that you need extra protein, which is likely that you need to be more mindful of where you get your protein.

Women trying to lose weight by cutting calories often forego healthy protein sources for bagels. Don’t get me started on my “bagels are empty calories” tirade; For now, all I’ll say is that high-protein foods include lean pork and beef, poultry, fish, eggs, beans, tofu, and low-fat dairy products. Include lean sources of protein in your marathon training diet.

The best sources of protein in your diet

  • lean pork and beef
  • Poultry
  • Fish
  • eggs
  • low-fat dairy products
  • Broccoli
  • Beans
  • Corn

fiber

Fiber helps the body stay healthy and can prevent heart disease. Getting enough may be easier than you think.

Soluble fiber, found in oats, barley, beans, apples, oranges, and other fruits and vegetables, can help prevent heart disease by lowering LDL, or “bad,” cholesterol levels. Set a goal to eat 20 to 35 grams of fiber every day. The best way to do this is to eat a wide variety of whole grains, nuts, seeds, legumes, fruits, and vegetables.

Fiber also keeps the intestines regular. This is key to avoiding discomfort in your long workouts.

The best sources of fiber in your diet

Include more fiber in your eating plan by adding vegetables to stews and stews. Add oatmeal to meatloaf, breads, and crackers. Fruit in cereals, as a snack and in salads are other options.

Legal Law

The art of listening and the effect on communication

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Listening can be difficult. It requires us to tune in to more than actual words and includes gestures, body language, and the ability to focus our attention and concentration on someone other than ourselves.

How often have you talked to someone on the phone and realized that you were multitasking and worried during the conversation?
Were they really listening? Probably not.

Are you someone who occasionally tune out when talking to another person because you are anxious to give your opinion and thoughts? Are you really listening? Probably not.

Do you tend to occasionally tune out when someone is talking to you and you don’t hear what is being said because your mind drifts to something completely unrelated? Are you really listening? Absolutely not.

There are four key communication skills to improve interpersonal relationships that require listening. Is it so:

o The ability to listen without judging.

o Show understanding of what has been said

o Acknowledge and accept another person’s point of view

o Refrain from imposing your personal beliefs on another person.

Sometimes someone may want to vent and isn’t interested in hearing feedback or advice. Being able to passively listen to that person’s words with your full attention and without responding verbally is a powerful “non-verbal” message. If done with an open heart and empathy for that person’s feelings, this can allow you to tap into your own access to inner wisdom, as well as the ability to go within yourself for exploration and guidance.

Simple and concise verbal responses to another person’s words convey the idea that you are listening by saying expressions like; “Oh”, “I see”, “Interesting” and other non-judgmental messages.

If you really want to respond, communicate your willingness to continue listening with statements like; “Tell me about it” or “Would you like to talk about it”?

Giving the speaker “feedback” requires that an active listener only give feedback on what they think the person means, not give advice, and only clarify what they are unsure about. Active listening encourages the free expression of problematic feelings. It is not a statement taken by the person speaking. “Can you tell me more?” or “Let’s see if I understand what you just said”, are typical phrases of active listening.

The ability to be an effective listener must be natural and realistic. Learning new skills for open communication takes practice, time, and awareness. For more information on this topic, visit http://www.anger411.com

Lifestyle Fashion

Why does my husband hate me so much? This is what to do when your husband says he hates you

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“Why does my husband hate me so much?” Many women think that their husband hates them. This is because her husband treats them unfairly, criticizes or blames them all the time, or because he has explicitly said “I hate you” to her wife. None of these really mean that your husband hates you. However, they do indicate that there is a problem in your marriage that needs to be resolved.

First of all, what you need to understand is that it’s very easy to freak out in the middle of heated arguments and say things like “I hate you, I wish I never met you” or things like that. This is especially the case with men: they can get very angry and not think about what they are saying. So when your husband says he hates you, you can remember the fact that he married you for a reason, and know that you don’t have to walk around the house thinking “why oh why does my husband hate me so much?” ?”

However, this does not mean that all is well in your marriage. There are struggles and problems in every marriage; But if the fights get so intense that your husband says he hates you, things have the potential to get worse. If he wants to save your marriage (or repair his marriage), now is the time to act, for those problems are like diseases: if he acts soon enough, they cause no lasting damage; and because they will make you more careful from now on, they can actually be beneficial. However, if you don’t act soon enough, those issues can leave lasting damage that could even lead to divorce. So don’t ask “Why does my husband hate me so much?” but ask yourself “How can I repair my marriage so that things never get so heated again and my husband doesn’t say he hates me?”

Repairing your marriage requires effort from several directions. If you have fights all the time, you have to learn to give in. It can be very difficult to compromise “now” on some issues that have been plaguing your marriage for a long time, but if you want to make progress, someone has to compromise. It could very well be you. Sure, compromising on everything isn’t the way to keep a marriage forever, but if you’re wondering “why does my husband hate me so much?” compromising on a few issues first might be the answer: you have to make the first move and husband could just do the same and take a few steps himself.