It took you so long to find the woman of your dreams and you were the luckiest man the moment he agreed to marry you. However, marriage is difficult and there are times when the two of you don’t seem to figure things out.

Some men often ask how to win or get their ex-wife back, especially after she has left home. This is tricky, as you can’t just ask for forgiveness and wait for him to come home. There are a few ways you can slowly get your wife back:

Give it the time it needs.

Let your wife have some time alone, without you around. Give him time and space to think things through and to calm down from all the anger. Give her as much time as she needs and be there when she’s ready to talk.

Apologize first, more than anything.

The first thing that should come out of your mouth is that you are sorry. Apologize for everything, especially all the things you’ve both been through lately. Make him realize that you no longer want the yelling or the anger.

One more chance.

You’re lucky if your wife is willing to accept you right away, but if she hesitates, tell her to give you one more chance. This time, don’t miss the opportunity he offered you. Do your best with this opportunity.

Ask him to fix things.

It is not enough that you do all the work. Speak to him with common sense and ask him to try to figure things out on his level. With the two of you working for your marriage, it is impossible for things to continue the same as before.

Swear and be true to that promise.

Give him a list of promises that you will keep with all your heart. When you make a promise, do it seriously. Don’t do it just to get it back.

Court her every day.

No woman will be able to ignore a man who courts her every day. You don’t have to give her gifts and expensive things every day. Just by telling her how much you love her in every moment that you can, she will keep the fire and the love going. You don’t have to be embarrassed if you sound corny.

Be faithful, patient, loving.

In other words, be the person you haven’t been in a long time. These qualities are what an ideal husband possesses. Even if you find it difficult to express them, don’t stop trying every hour of the day until the love you had years ago returns.