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Twin flames: the new paradigm of relationships

Everyone has a Twin Flame. Everyone has an image of their perfect partner in their psyche and can describe them in detail. It is our anima and animus. We project these qualities onto our peers when we fall in love and get married. Most of us unconsciously work with our Twin Flame, but during this generation, some of us come across our soulmate incarnate. Hundreds are reaching out to help raise the vibration of the planet as they manifest powerful unconditional love.

A person will have a close natural relationship with a soulmate, but meeting their Twin Flame is a different experience. The Twins are here to help release karma at an accelerated rate. Psychologists who counsel others (unless they have been through this experience themselves) commonly doubt the validity of a Twin Flame relationship. It is a powerful magnetic encounter of two polarized parts of the same soul. In other words, you have the same spiritual DNA as your Twin Flame and you recognize yourself in the “other”.

The special event of finding your Twin Flame and harmonizing in a happy relationship is a great challenge. It is an encounter with destiny and an opportunity for rapid spiritual growth. Loving your Twin Flame is an opportunity to experience how intimate relationships will change in the Age of Aquarius. Despite much confusion, overwhelming emotions, and frequent ruptures, Twin Flames widely open the heart chakra to each other. Unconditional love radiates through each conflict until harmony can finally be mastered. These conflicts act as a stimulus to bring each twin’s “hidden” issues to the surface so that the twins can heal and integrate their personalities in a healthier way. If one has a complex or insecurity, the other twin is likely to have the same problem on some level, sometimes in reverse. All wounds must arise to be transformed and healed so that nothing blocks their love for each other.

In the future, important relationships will be based primarily on love, rather than the needs for survival or dominance. This movement toward a preference for love as the basis for marriage has evolved over hundreds of years in the West. Love is forming the new prototype of intimacy and supports your partner’s spiritual growth, allowing their talents to fully flourish. Then we can fully explore the true creative potential of the human being, in harmony with the greater divine plan.

Twin Flames have a characteristic intensity of passion, desire and excitement, with a mental meeting of minds that is unmatched in any other relationship. In the first meeting between twins, it is often the quality of their voice that is disturbing in some way, indicating that this person is someone very special. You will see fleeting flashes of yourself (in them) as they get to know each other better and the first sexual encounters are usually very powerful. Kissing can be like a drug.

There are several stages in a Twin Flame relationship that are generally accepted. Their relationship tends to be magnetic, intoxicating, and illuminating; but it is also a confusing connection to someone who has the power to hurt and heal you at the same time. Separations occur because you become aware of some aspect of your dark side and this is reflected in you from your Twin. They are a mirror of your own soul. This is the hardest part of the love story to understand. Doing your own shadow work, a key component of Jungian psychology, is a must, or you will project your dark side onto your partner without knowing it. Unconditional love, complete acceptance, and non-judgment are essential for these couples to be successful. But this is how the new relationship template is being built, through these same experiences. If you persevere, you can find true happiness with another human being. To outside observers, it seems like a strange obsessive dance; but for the Twins themselves, the joy and love they feel for each other is infinitely self-generated. It really can seem like a miracle.

The separation process can continue for years as you struggle to harmonize, as it is common for a twin to repeatedly run away from the relationship. Intense emotions often threaten to engulf one or both partners. Breakups can be paralyzing, and intense feelings are often scary without an understanding of the special dynamics involved. Often, too, a twin can still be ingrained in karmic relationships with others, further complicating matters. All relationships should be handled with respect and resolved in the best way for all parties involved, so that no more karmic entanglements are created.

The lives of Twin Flames are synchronous and parallel to each other quite closely. The closest phenomenon that we know to this experience is the birth of identical twins. The psychic connection is just as intense, and in fact, identical twins can also be Twin Flames, only born to the same family and gender. There will also be opposites with Twin Flames, but they come together according to the middle with very similar values. Their close psychic connection allows them to feel the emotions of others if they pay attention. Your strengths are doubled, as are your weaknesses, hence the need for personal work. These relationships can often create iconic influence in your immediate social community if you can maintain it, especially with careers in politics or the arts.

Everyone has a Twin Flame and if you want to find or work with yours, there are several methods that will help you connect. You can never lose your Twin Flame as they are an essential part of who you are. Relationships are becoming an opportunity to open up self awareness in a safe environment, less about “what can you do for me?” Understanding the unconditional love that twin flames bring to the world will help improve everybody of your relationships. Until now, unconditional love was primarily experienced through a good mother, child, or pet. The Twin Flames are bringing this love into volatile romantic infatuation, changing male and female relationships for the better.

If you or someone you know is experiencing a difficult relationship with many breakups and reunions, it could be Twin Flames. I have written an in-depth e-book to help others navigate through these complicated connections, so much of the suffering can be avoided. I have had a successful Twin Flame relationship for 12 years, and I write from my own personal experience. Contact me for more information and visit my website for my e-book or schedule a private phone consultation. Half an hour can do you a lot of good!