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How To Get Your Ex Back: Top Myths About Getting Your Ex Back Revealed

You’ve heard it all from friends and family. To win your ex back, you have to constantly be around, reminding him that you care. If you harass him and make life difficult for him, he will eventually give in. You have to play tricks on him and finish off his current girlfriend. Let her current girl know that you are not happy and that you will hit her the next time you see her. These are all common myths about how to get your ex back. If you have tried any of them, then you know they don’t work. And there are specific reasons why these are ineffective, and even decrease your chance of getting your ex back.

Nobody likes to be told they are wrong.

By constantly harassing your ex and telling them they were meant for each other, you’re essentially saying over and over, “You were wrong. You were wrong. You were wrong.” He’s just going to want to back off even more, and you’ve just made your situation worse. You don’t like being told you’re wrong, why would he?

People like to decide something on their own.

This is very powerful, so instead of trying to decide for him, let this work for you. To get your ex back, let him have enough time apart to miss you. That can only be done by backing off, creating a positive and happy image of yourself and making yourself more attractive to your ex. You are using psychology for you, rather than against you, to win your ex back.

He still cares a lot about you and hates seeing you like this.

The truth is, your ex still cares a lot. Do you think he likes to see you act crazy? It hurts to see you suffer. She realizes that he is the one who caused this pain and just looks away. Again, this takes it away, not back at you. The few times that this sympathy strategy actually results in a meeting, the relationship doesn’t last.

Look, I realize you feel powerless in your efforts to get your ex back, but if you’re employing any of these methods, you’re actually lowering your chances of getting together. Step back, take a deep breath, cut off the communication, and give him time to miss you, and you’ll be ready to make the powerful relationship-saving opening move that will help you get your ex back.